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IT DOSENT GET EASIER.......

Posted on December 18, 2009 at 5:59pm 1 Comment 0 Likes

HELLO ALL,

IAM A 37 YR OLD WITH A 14 AND 12 YR OLD,I LOST MY HONEY ON DEC 19TH 1999,IT WILL TEN YRS TOMORROW BUT THE PAIN IS SO STRONG STILL LIKE IT WAS THE FIRST YEAR,CHRISTMAS TIME IS EXTREMELY HARD I BURIED HIM 2 DAYS B4 CHRISTMAS,IM NOT DOING TO GOOD THIS SEASON AND I STILL MISS HIM VERYYYYY MUCH,I UNDERSTAND ALL OF YOUR HURT AND LONLINESS IT SEEMS LIKE IT NEVER GETS BETTER FOR ME,I SUFFER FROM SEVERE ANXIETY AND I FEEL TERRIBLE ALL THE TIME ......IF ANYONE NEEDS TO TALK FEEL… Continue

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At 6:42pm on December 20, 2009, Renona Guyton said…: Hi Roberta; I think it would be great that we hook-up and I do feel the depression coming on for the holidays. My husband loved Christmas and this will be my first one without him. It would be very tough to have lost my husband during Christmas and losing him on Valentine's Day was tough still and it was a day before our 3rd anniversary. It would be good to have someone besides family (as I have used them a lot) to have to get through this really, really rough period. Although, I think that I will be where you are even after 10 years. Thanks for reaching out to me, I really needed it.

At 12:24pm on December 19, 2009, violet la pollo said…: IT SEEMS WE BOTH ARE IN THE SAME HEARTBREAKING TIME OF THE YEAR,,MARRIED 48 YEARS MY HUSBAND PASSED AWAY ,WHEN I SEE OLDER COUPLES WALKING TOGETHER I ASK GOD WHY NOT GIVE US THE CHANCE TO GROW OL TOGETHER,ALL THE MURDERS,DRUNK DRIVERS KILLING AN INNOCENT PERSON,ALL THE CRIMINALS IN JAIL WELL WHY DONT HE TAKE THEM INSTEAD MY FAITH IS JUST ABOUT GONE AND I AM GETTING MORE BITTER,MY HUSBAND WAS A GOOD MAN WHO WOULD HELP EVERYONE FRIENDS OR STRANGERS WHO NEEDED HELP,HE PUT EVERYONE BEFORE HIM AND THE THANKS HE GOT WAS 2 YEARS WITH COLON CANCER,9 MONTHS HOME IN BED IN AGONY UNABLE TO GET OUT OF BED AND THE PAIN SO UNBEARABLE I CRIED ALONG WITH HIM ,NOW I ASK GOD WHY? I AM GETTING SO BITTER AND LOSING ALL THE FAITH I HAD NEVER TO UNDERSTAND WHY THE GOOD DIE YOUNG AND THE ROTTEN ONES LIVE AND GO ON WITH THEIR LIVES.I CANNOT SAY HAPPY HOLIDAYS BECAUSE I KNOW THERE WILL BE NONE FOR YOU BUT I CAN SAY IS BE THANKFUL YOU HAVE YOUR CHILDREN WITH YOU AND ALTHOUGH IT DOES NOT GET EASIER THERE WILL COME A TIME WHEN YOU REALIZE GEE I DID NOT CRY TODAY OR LAST NIGHT I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST IF EVER YOU WANT TO CHAT MY E-MAIL IS