Thank you for your kind message, Rebecca - I agree - we are all in a club we never wanted to join, but we are connected as I believe our loved ones are also connected where they are - watching over us. And they are truly healed and whole now - that's what I believe.
Rebecca - I saw your posting today. I haven't posted in quit sometime. Our son left this life in December of 2009. It will be 8 years and I can't get my head around that. I guess we walk in two worlds, the one here and the one that is out of step with our loved one. I know time passes but it feels like forever and it feels like yesterday. I carry the sorrow a bit better now, but it takes a lot of energy to remember and talk to others. My heart and prayers are with you today. I think of all the people that post here. It helped me a lot. Love to all.