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Donovan Howells - Natasha Ephithite

I lost my son Donovan and Natasha (the Mother of his 3yr. old daughter) Natasha passed away on June 19th 2010. Donovan Passed away July 20th 2010.

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At 10:51pm on February 27, 2011, Ronda Johnston said…: Hello Renee, I just wanted to touch base & see how your doing?? I hope your doing fine.... Just remember we all care, write when u have time please. Love Ronda

At 9:44pm on February 1, 2011, Ronda Johnston said…: Hello Renee, Its been awhile since I have been on, Haveing a really bad time grieving for my son Sean.... Missing him so much it hurts!!!! I hope your doing well, just wanted to touch base... please write when you have time would love to hear from you. Thanks.... Hugs & God Bless... Ronda

At 5:15pm on January 28, 2011, Jane said…: Hi Renee,

Thank you for the friend request. I lost my son Kyle June 20 2010 the day afterNatashas passing. I am so sorry to you for haveing to suffer twice. This site has been a tremendous sorce of comfort. We all know what each other is feeling and we all understand and support one another. My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family. My son was almost a father, his girlfriend suffered a miscarriage, My son was devastated he wanted to be the father he never had. I know how hard it is to try to find positive things in the middle of grief but you will always have a piece of him in your grand daughter.

I still long to see my kyle, this has been the hardest thing I've ever gone through in my life. Kyles 20th birthday will be March 19, then of course the one year anniversary of his passing in June. I wanted to die with him, I truley didn't think I could survive wthout him. We find the way somehow. I do everything I can to keep his memory going. I vow he will never be forgotten. Im planning a memorial on the one yr mark. Im donating a wooden bench to the highschool he attended (He was one week shy of graduation) he is next to a park where he had his favorite hang out spot. I choose wood so his frineds could carve in the bench if they wanted too.

Kyle does not have any marker of any kind as I had him creamated and I keep him home with me. I couldnt bare to put him in the ground. so this gives his friends a place to go and remember him. It really helps me.

Thank you again to requesting my friendship and I look forward to getting to know you.

My much love and comfort to you Renee

Jane

At 8:38am on January 11, 2011, Jody's Mom said…: Hi Renee, I accepted your friendship , I truly understand what it feels like I lost my daughter June 27,1993 , its been 17 years. Nobody can give us a answer "WHY" All we can do is to help others that has been through this , nobody should have too , its a pain and hurt we never forget , I love each and every one of you , Friends are Angels without wings , Ann

At 9:19pm on January 10, 2011, Terri Kuta said…: Renee:

I truly understand your loss my father passed away augut 8th 2010 and my son was killed in an auto accident november 19, 2010 my father was expected but to have 2 at such a short period of time does take a toll on anyone. This site has really helped me alot and Im sure it will help you also

Terri Jonathan's mom

At 8:36pm on January 10, 2011, karen said…: im so sorry to hear about your both loses. i lost my daughter on november 23, 2005 and my dad on dec. 23, 2005. it doesnt get any easier, everything especially holidays and birthdays. i miss them both as you do. please continue to contact me.

karen

At 3:45pm on January 9, 2011, Phil's Mamama said…: I am glad to be your friend. I wish that there was something I could really do other than tell you how truly sorry I am.

It will be two years for us on Jan 16. It makes me so sad that I cannot stop crying. Our son should be here with us. . .

I hope you have some good friends nearby. I use the word "friend" so carefully now. I hope you have some good friends to support you and make you feel safe.

There are so many truly special people here who can put wisdom into their writing. I wish i could be like them.

Just remember how many people care.

Phils Mamma

Diane Dillon in NC

At 4:13am on January 9, 2011, Renee Bushey said…: I wish Heaven had a phone, so I could hear your voice again. I thought of you today, but that was nothing new. I thought about you yesterday & days before that too. I think of you in silence, and often speak your name. All I have are memories and your picture in a frame.

At 7:26am on January 7, 2011, Carrie L said…: Hi renee, I am so sorry we are feeling this much pain. wouldn't it be a joy for one phone call one i love you mom. They were innocent and didn't deserve to be taken from us and their lives. Love to you. As we need it so badly. I am so sorry for us and the pain we'll have to endure forever. Yes perhaps one day we won't wake up in such a frantic mess. Or want sleep to feel peace in our souls. Our children were beautiful. souls.. meant to be here forever for when we had them you remember how loving and neat they were. i would go back in a minute and have his little body next to mine. and they grew up to be very interesting and outgoing... I don't quite have an easy mind anymore it is tormented with what happened and the foreverness of it.. love to you carrie L

At 6:23pm on December 27, 2010, Phil's Mamama said…: Dear Renee,

I do not write often but wanted to tell you how truly sorry I am. The loss of "2". . .There are no words that I can say. I know how hard Christmas was. ..and to think that this is how it will be forever. . .that there is nothing I can ever do. Please know again that there are so many dear people here that truly care.

I certainly care.

Phils Mamma in NC

Diane Dillon