Sally Wilson
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  • Lawrence, MI
  • United States
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What brings me here is the fact that i am having a hard time dealing with the loss of my younger brother. He was killed on valentines day in an auto accident. He was my only sibling and we were close. I just can't believe he is gone. I have so much regret and guilt built up in me that sometimes it is just hard to make it through. i hear a song and i start to cry thinking of old memories. I know it is all still fresh but the pain is so bad somedays i just need to talk. My parents are not handling it well at all either i have to keep watch on them because they are losing there will to be here the break down all the time. just feel like alot on my shoulders right now and not sure what to do looking for advice i guess or just someone that understands

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At 5:04pm on May 18, 2011, misty mathis said…
Sally you sound somuch like me its unreal. I to lost my bro due to a fatal auto accident in  Aug of last yr. I dont know if I will ever get over losing him or not. Just today I was sitting on my bed looking out the window at traffic and sometimes I would see him go by in his big red ford truck. It hit me that I will never see that again and I just started crying. Its the hardest thing Ive ever been through, and I dont no how to handle it. My Daddy is literally greiving himself to death over this, my mamma is not the same. It kills me to go around them cause theres nothing I can do for them when they break down. I try to hold up in front of them , I do most of my greiving alone. I dont know what to do. My bro was my world and I just cant let go . Its just to hard. But I will tell you this in the smallest quitest hours Ifeel him around me and even hear hm often. Its like it happens at just the right times.I dont belive we will ever be comfortable or get over losing our bro. but I do belive if we hold on and just take the time we will continue to feel them all around us. Im so sorry for your loss its a hurt I cant explain and Im sure you feel the same. At those times when its just you alone close your eyes and you will feel him there. He may be gone from your sight but he will always be with you....
At 5:04pm on May 18, 2011, misty mathis said…
Sally you sound somuch like me its unreal. I to lost my bro due to a fatal auto accident in  Aug of last yr. I dont know if I will ever get over losing him or not. Just today I was sitting on my bed looking out the window at traffic and sometimes I would see him go by in his big red ford truck. It hit me that I will never see that again and I just started crying. Its the hardest thing Ive ever been through, and I dont no how to handle it. My Daddy is literally greiving himself to death over this, my mamma is not the same. It kills me to go around them cause theres nothing I can do for them when they break down. I try to hold up in front of them , I do most of my greiving alone. I dont know what to do. My bro was my world and I just cant let go . Its just to hard. But I will tell you this in the smallest quitest hours Ifeel him around me and even hear hm often. Its like it happens at just the right times.I dont belive we will ever be comfortable or get over losing our bro. but I do belive if we hold on and just take the time we will continue to feel them all around us. Im so sorry for your loss its a hurt I cant explain and Im sure you feel the same. At those times when its just you alone close your eyes and you will feel him there. He may be gone from your sight but he will always be with you....
At 2:16pm on May 12, 2011, Glenda Speelman said…

Sally,

I lost my twin brother May 30, 2010 in a boating accident and I don't think I will ever feel normal again. I've really struggled this year and the anniversary is right around the corner. Someone bought me the book "Heaven is for real" by Todd Burpo w/Lynn Vincent. I know my brother was a believer in God and I have to tell you, this is the most peace I've gotten since his death. I strongly encourage you to read this book because it has really helped me. I'm still sad and I miss him terribly but I know where he is  and seeing it through a child's eyes is amazing. I can't wait to see my brother and my dad again and I know one day we will all be in Heaven together. I hurt they are gone but I'm happy they are so happy and healthy

now. You are in my prayers.             Glenda

At 2:16pm on May 12, 2011, Glenda Speelman said…

Sally,

I lost my twin brother May 30, 2010 in a boating accident and I don't think I will ever feel normal again. I've really struggled this year and the anniversary is right around the corner. Someone bought me the book "Heaven is for real" by Todd Burpo w/Lynn Vincent. I know my brother was a believer in God and I have to tell you, this is the most peace I've gotten since his death. I strongly encourage you to read this book because it has really helped me. I'm still sad and I miss him terribly but I know where he is  and seeing it through a child's eyes is amazing. I can't wait to see my brother and my dad again and I know one day we will all be in Heaven together. I hurt they are gone but I'm happy they are so happy and healthy

now. You are in my prayers.             Glenda

 
 
 

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