Sara Murphy
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Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Todd.....I've been thinking about you today.  I hope you were able to have a somewhat peaceful day remembering all the beautiful times you and Claudia shared.  Take care my friend. Love, Sara"
Feb 14
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Chuck.....so our blizzard made the news.  It's always fun getting 2 ft of snow, you remember what that's like right. I spent the day of the blizzard binge watching Seal Team (I love that show)  and began clean up on…"
Feb 1
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane.....I don't have exactly the experience you do but I do feel Ken, at times more strongly than others.  It depends what's going on but even on days that I don't feel him at all, I still know he's here.  I…"
Feb 1
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thanks everyone.  Jan 13th will always be a day which marks the passage of time.  On the 1 yr anniversary I took the day off from work and vowed I would take every Jan 13th off to reflect and honor Ken.  I did take the day off the 2nd…"
Jan 14
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Mary Jane….Glad you're doing well.  I actually don't lose stuff often, but I have heard that happening.  The few times I have misplaced something these past few years, I have asked Ken for help.  I eventually do…"
Jan 12
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Chuck and Steve...I'm so sorry to hear you've both been sick.  I hope you're feeling much better now.  I understand your friend being tired of Covid….we all are....but you're right to say Covid is not done…"
Jan 12
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Tomorrow is the 6 yr anniversary of Ken's death.  I can't even believe 6 yrs have passed.  It seems like just yesterday and an eternity all at once.  Here's a pic from our happy place....the White Mountains in New…"
Jan 12
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Todd....It's nice to see you post as well.  It seems you're in a good place now and I'm glad to see you smile :) Chuck and Steve...please know I think of you all nightly...and I don't mind you being a mother hen…"
Dec 30, 2021
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Everyone, I wanted to wish you all a Merry Christmas.  Sorry I haven't been on in a while.   I wish I could say it's because extra fun things are happening but it's really just status quo.  I think of you all…"
Dec 24, 2021
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Trina...I'm happy with how the tattoo's turned out.  I guess it pays to not through everything away.  I have a bunch of paperwork from Ken's business so when my niece asked if she could use his writing for her tattoo, I…"
Aug 19, 2021
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I finally got around to getting this tattoo which I've been wanting for a while.  The second pic is my niece's 1st tattoo (18th bday gift).  She wanted to use Ken's own handwriting so I found a fax he wrote years ago and…"
Aug 19, 2021
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Deb, I just read your question about dreaming if our spouses are leaving us in real life,  I actually had those dreams BEFORE Ken died.   That's how I knew I was going to lose him even though the doctors were telling me…"
Aug 5, 2021
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi friends, I'm sorry I dropped off for a while.  I'll have to catch up on reading the posts. The past few months have been crazy.  My mother's been sick since March and just got home from her third hospital stay since then…"
Aug 5, 2021
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi All...….checking in to see how everyone is doing.  I'm doing ok, trying to remain covid free which isn't easy. My mother has been in and out of the hospital the past few weeks which keeps my siblings and I a little extra…"
Mar 30, 2021
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"HI All......First I want to say I'm glad Chuck and Steve are safe.  I was thinking about you both quite a bit.  I can't believe what I was seeing on the news. As far as the vaccine, I'll be in the very last phase so…"
Mar 4, 2021
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I saw this post on Facebook today and think it's a beautiful way of looking at our life's journey.  Thank you all for being on my train.  Although I may not be able to see you, I know you're there THE TRAIN: At birth we…"
Feb 9, 2021

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Posted on February 28, 2016 at 1:58pm 2 Comments

I lost my husband Ken in January after 26 1/2 yrs of marriage.  He was the love of my life, my everything.  Now I don't know what comes next.  It's a struggle to get through each day.  Only those that have lost their life partner can understand how excruciating it is.  I'm hoping this group can somehow help.

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At 8:17am on October 6, 2018, Susan said…

Hi Sara,

I haven't been on line lately. Had a couple of very sad weeks. I would love to get together sometime. This is such a lonely journey. Would love to meet with someone's who actually understands. I live in Beverly.

Susan

At 9:30am on March 14, 2018, Anthony Umphenour said…

Thank you Sara!  I'm still overwhelmed in sadness.  It's nice to know there is a safe place to chat with others.

At 7:44am on February 18, 2017, LARRY WALD said…

Thank you Sara

At 9:16am on October 13, 2016, virginia mckinney said…

Thank you Sara ,I am sorry is not good enough to say to you,there are no words ,Micah is my son, he was 32 when it happen, I am the daughter of a preacher and never doubted god , but living with my husband 53years ,saying ,it's a fantasy that people want to believe,and all the other of his beliefs it is hard for me to think which way is right (I am problem not making sense,idont these days)

At 2:21pm on July 21, 2016, Marsha H said…

Hi Sara ...  Nice to be your friend.  My honor!

Marsha

At 3:37pm on July 7, 2016, Reponsa Bias said…
Hi Sara
I'm truly sorry for your loss if I could I'd wish it all better for you. Hang in....one day at a time.
At 8:27pm on July 2, 2016, Karen said…

Oh, my Sara, I think I understand what you're saying - all this time - ugh.  Thank you - well, it's too late now bc Daddy's been gone 6 yrs so I'm doing much better - wow.  Thank you for the info!

At 7:57pm on June 24, 2016, Harold McKinstry said…

Hi Sara

My biggest struggle is I know Diane is gone and not coming back, but there is a small piece of my brain that won't accept that. The idea that I will never get another kiss, hug and I Love You More from her just doesn't seem possible or real. None of this seems real to me how could it makes no sense. I find I do best if I don't look too far ahead, when I do I get depressed and anxiety sets in. Then the reality sets in of being alone for the rest of my life without the love of my life. Maybe not looking to far ahead is my brains way of keeping that piece of my brain that can't accept happy. I try not to think of it to much. 

At 9:08pm on March 21, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

Hi Sara,

From reading the posts, you and I seems to be the only ones who have recently lost our spouses.  Have you returned to work yet?  I haven't.  I am looking for something new.  I can't go back to that place.  

The weekends seems the hardest to me.  Sunday just wouldn't end. I pray for strenght every day.  I haven't been able to go through his things.  I wear his pajamas, socks, t-shirts and anything else that I can.  I miss him so much.

If you ever want to talk one on one, just let me know.  I think I would find comfort in talking.

Joann

At 8:13pm on March 19, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

I'm having one of those moments and anxiety as I type.  I will ask my doctor for some meds.  I am 4 months from my 57th birthday.  He made them so special.  I, too, wish that I could be with him but yet know that my children need me.  I feel stuck.  My emotions are so out of control right now.  I just want my heart to stop aching.  

I hope to talk to you tomorrow.  Let me know what range of time would be good for you.  I plan to go to church for the first time since his funeral.  I am going to take something to help me sleep.

Talk to you soon.

Joann

 
 
 

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