Reading what you have been through makes me wonder why some people have to have so much tragedy in their lives. I lost my wife 2 1/2 years ago and my Mom one year later . I am having issues about dating also. I met a nice lady, a widow of 3 years. We get along good, but seem to be in different stages of grief. She is ready to move on,and has even said she is filling in love with me. I am not ready to fall in love, and not sure I will ever be.

sherilyn   i have no words or wisdom to say .i have no answers. i have nothing to offer than may comfort you except this .

     i lost my wife in car accident 4/5/10.  she was my life . i never got to say goodbye . i will always love her .......   

          today i am in a better place . i got better by moving forward trying to start a new life in a different place than where i use to live. i ask my wife to visit me , she did( in a dream) i ask god to help me. i got answered prayer within hours. 

          i sought help. i attended groups with people in same boat as us.

things got better because i counted blessings and ignored the issues that were not blessings,

 

best of luck to you..

 

david 

My daughter, Andrea, is having a hard time as we all are with his death. He passed away at her house and she will forever have that memory. I have 2 daughters and a son left.

I read what happened to Kelly. That is so sad. People are just cruel. I don't know how you go on. You have amazing strength. I also saw a picture of Cleve. He was a handsome young man.