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Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you Trina, I saw this on FB and felt I should share; it is spot on for all of us.  Just wish those that are family and friends understood this. Good to hear from you always, Hugs Steve"
Apr 10
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Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Here is a picture of our fireplace, please note that we use it for various displays, currently it has Chucks' version of the Adams Family, just above it is the wood carving I noted.  Enjoy your day today. love steve"
Feb 27
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Mary Jane, Ghosts and Angels appear in and out of our lives on their own timetable, so when we are expecting them to show up, they tend to disappoint us.  The best gifts from them are the ones when we least expect them.  The other…"
Feb 27
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane, Hang in there, emergency room visits for any reason is scary for me, let alone a stay in the hospital.  Please know that you are and still in my prayers each day.  Praying for a speedy recovery and God's loving embrace of a…"
Feb 20
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you, Marsha, for posting her message.  I will add my prayers to everyone else's.  Y Hug to you. Steve G."
Feb 20
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Great to hear from everyone!  8 years have passed since Mark's passing, and I must add that on some days it seems like yesterday.  Those times have subsided, but it does not change or lesson the loss.  Time does help heal but it…"
Feb 17
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Mary Jane, It will be 8 years this coming November when I lost my Mark; for me the journey I have been on since was not what I imagined my life would become.  So many changes and adjustments that I could not have planned by myself; there had…"
Feb 10
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I still get help from my unseen Angles, all the time.  My gratitude for this help is never ending and they have been around helping me even before I realized they were.  Strange how life catches up with us as we grow older and learn to…"
Feb 5
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Sara, The photo of me and Mark was taken in Ft Lauderdale (2000) at a Christmas party for the company was working for.  We had relocated from Key West just one year before this photo.  We both looked so young then, but then that was 22…"
Feb 5
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha, Well, guess who is not getting any updates from Legacy, me.  I have tried all the tricks I know of to get updates into my email.  Oh well, one of life's little bumps.  Anyway, Chuck is now my mail alert. Hope your New…"
Dec 30, 2021
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Well now, another new year is upon us all, what shall we do with it? I for one plan to take it as it comes, so much easier that way.  My days of trying to control time and life events seems to take too much energy away.   Thank you…"
Dec 30, 2021
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane, Good to have you back on Legacy.  Hope that the coming new year will be somewhat better for us all.  It is bad enough dealing with our grief, but we could do without fires, tornados, hurricanes, blizzards and Covid.  Take…"
Dec 23, 2021
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha, Thank you for your kind review of my miniatures, they really are my best distraction from reality these days.  This past November was Mark's 7th year since his passing.  So much has changed and so much seems to stay the…"
Dec 23, 2021
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Mary Jane, Nothing you have said that I know of was ever offensive to me.  I love your wit, your insights to things that I forget to consider and your wonderful capacity to cheer me up just by reading your posts.  So, please do not…"
Dec 22, 2021
Steve G. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"We hope you enjoy these pictures as much as we enjoyed making our individual miniatures.  I focus on "sets with furniture and Chuck's focus is on makeovers for dolls and then organizing his sets for photo opts...a perfect example of…"
Dec 21, 2021

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Me and Bella

Posted on September 17, 2017 at 10:43am 0 Comments

January%202015.jpg I took this photo in January 2015 just two short months after Mark's death, I had traveled home to Jacksonville, Florida and drove out to the Beach with our dog Bella. A "Nor-Easter" was blowing cold wind in and there were maybe 3 other brave souls…

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All The People in My Life

Posted on September 14, 2017 at 6:30am 0 Comments

I have created a blog page on Face Book @Stephen.goodwin264.  

It is a collection of short stories about all the people in my life and how their influence have helped to make me the person I am today.  So far I have completed 3 short stories and will continue to add new ones.  My goal is to literally include everyone I have journeyed with in this life and the ones I have yet to meet.  Hope you visit my page and I look forward to your feed…

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At 7:00pm on January 25, 2019, DJ said…

Hi Steve;

Regarding the two url (links) you posted: one is directly into a discussion within, the other is to the main page of Steve Cain's group.

Check the top of the "Comment Wall" (main page), and you will see a list of "Discussion Forums", one of them is the first link you posted (Grief so great it hurts).  To get back to the main page from within that discussion, click the "back to Bereaved Spouses discussions" then click "back to Bereaved Spouses".

At 10:56am on July 28, 2018, Mary Nola said…

my dog Shaggy is my lifeline he too was grieving so good to have this and share our stories 

At 2:55pm on September 15, 2017, Marsha H said…

Steve ...  What wonderful pictures and such treasured memories.  You know me and dogs and the dog on your slide show won my heart.  Sweet face!  I hope to add more pictures to my Home Page as well.

Thank you big brother for sharing your most personal pictures.

Hugs

Marsha

At 12:24pm on November 13, 2016, Eric said…
Hi Steve,

Thank you for the friendship. Do you live in Dallas or NJ?
I live in Richardson.

It's been a tough few years for me, losing my partner suddenly and both of my parents over a few years. I even lost my dog...When it rains it pours. My live has changed in so many ways...I found this site and home to find out more about the grieving process. My family was not close, so suddenly finding fillings of loss has been devastating . It's a rather long story. Hope you are having a great weekend
At 11:17am on August 30, 2016, Steve G. said…
T.C. Goodwin, we share the same last name. Just occurred to me that I never mentioned that before.
At 9:09am on February 23, 2016, T.C. Goodwin said…

Amen Steve...

At 8:46am on February 23, 2016, Steve G. said…
For those who believe:

I wish I could tell you of all that God has planned

But if I were to tell you, you wouldn’t understand

But one this is for certain though my life on earth is o’re

I am closer to you now than I was ever before

And to my very many friends trust God knows what is best

I’m still not far away from you, I’m just beyond the crest

There are rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb

But together we can do it taking one day at a time

It was always my philosophy and I’d like it for you too

That as you give unto the world so the world will give to you

If you can help somebody who is in sorrow or in pain

Then you can say to God at night my day was not in vain

And now I am contented that my life was worthwhile

Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile

So if you meet somebody who is down and feeling low

Just lend a hand to pick him/her up as on your way you go.

When you are walking down the street and you’ve got me on your mind,

I’m walking in your footsteps only half a step behind

And when you feel the gentle breeze or the wind upon your face

That’s me giving you a great big hug or just a soft embrace

And when it’s time for you to go from that body to be free

Remember you’re not going you are coming here to me.

I will always love you.

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At 10:57pm on February 22, 2016, elyse said…
Steve,
On your post from Jan.27,what is the poem:For those who believe,etc.elyse
At 4:00pm on April 8, 2015, Jane P. said…

Steve, I am going to be one of those that will tell you to take your time.  I strongly suggest no to make any life altering changes within the first year.  Your post hit home for me.  Before my husband passed I retired from a job which I loved and was so respected but I did it with no regrets to take care of him.  After he passed away I confined myself to the sofa or bed and it it were not for my dogs I might still be there.  

I have no clue what God has in store for me or why am I here and he is not.  I guess why is an unanswered question we will need to figure out in time.   I try my hardest to stay positive and so when I am down I need to count my blessings and not my heart aches and that keeps me going.  

Grieving such as ours is a baby step process and unless someone has lost their soulmate, best friend, spouse all rolled into one they will never understand the pain we are in.  They will never understand the pain lingers and never truly goes away!  Take one day at a time Steve and remember to count your blessings and take life slow for now.  Sending big hugs your way.  Hugs, Jane P.

 

At 2:15pm on February 17, 2015, T.C. Goodwin said…

Helpful Tips:.

Keep busy and continue your routine of work and activity.  Many expressed the great help they received from prayer.

Let your grief manifest itself; don’t try to hold it in. The sooner you grieve and weep, the sooner you will pass the period of acute grief.

Don’t isolate yourself; mix with people and allow them to mix with you. If it helps you, talk freely about your lost loved one.

As soon as possible, take an interest in other people and their problems. Try to help others, and you will help yourself."

 
 
 

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