Hi Steve.  Nice to meet you.  Yes, I know.  I don't remember what key words I used in my search criteria on Google, but you and your story popped up.  I made an account specifically to reach out to you.  I read your story and I thought, "Wow. Someone who experienced a very similar situation to mine."  If I think about it even for a few seconds, how self-centered people were and really, quite stupid with their approach, I get very angry.  And here it is, not a single peep. You aren't alone.  I understand. And I am very, very sorry for your loss.  Thanks for connecting/responding.