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unending bereavement

Posted on July 3, 2015 at 11:05pm 1 Comment 0 Likes

7/04 is to be the same as last year; cool & rainy. My spouse was in brief remission, with me, in our 2nd home; taking down a Xmas tree that surrealistically stood from a previous season. It was packed for a future holiday never-to-be. He is gone, & our home for sale.

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At 3:40pm on May 26, 2015, Andrew McCullough said…: Hi, Steve -

I haven't been on this site long, just a few weeks - I found it by accident as I was searching for a grief counselor in Seattle (which I've since quit trying to find - they're all far more damaged than I). So far I've not found the site to be particularly helpful aside from a place where I can post thoughts and memories about my Tim.

At 12:35pm on May 26, 2015, Andrew McCullough said…: Hi, Steve.

I am sorry for your loss - I truly am.

If you're feeling grief that hasn't eased that may be all it means, that it just hasn't eased yet. It's been 4 months for me and I am only just now starting to grieve, cracking but not quite breaking the dam. Maybe you and I should talk - put a little balance back into the universe.