Posted on June 9, 2010 at 12:03pm
At 11:57am on June 9th, 2010, brandy said…
At 6:43pm on June 8th, 2010, brandy said…
Hi,my name is Brandy,this is new to me I'm not sure how I really feel ,I get scaread,worried,having to decide on things comes hard, I get upset easily&the nervousness keeps me awake,last night was rough I couln't sleep cause I knew I had to go away today.
The feelings are crazy,I lost my husband in Feb.& i don't know where i belong it's like I'm lost ,but yet I have to be… Continue
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My name is Mary. You sent a message to Dotti and it appeared on my page. I don't know if she got it or not. I know Dotti, she and I have written each other many times, here and on regular e-mail.
You and I seem to have some things that are about the same. I too, lost my husband Jim in Feb. the 7th to be exact. I believe you said your husbands birthday was June12th. My husbands was June 13th. This has been a hard couple of weeks for me, with his birthday and father's day so close together.
I am so sorry you are going through this, none of us wants to be here. Sounds like you loved your husband very much, as I did mine. I just hate being alone again. You see, I have lost 2 husbands through death. I was married 16 years the first time and had 3 young children at home, when he died. I met my second husband several years later and we were married 24 years. They were both wonderful men. But my lose this time hurts so much more. Probably because I am older. We had just retired and were going to enjoy some "us" time. My children are grown now and have lives of their own. I am very lost right now and I know you know how that is.
It must be very hard if he took care of you in all ways. I'm glad you have your son to help you. I was always the one to be the care giver in both my marriages. I did all the yard work and bill paying, so that is not an issue for me at all. Let others help you with your physical needs, you have enough to deal with just getting through this time of grief, it is hard work, and very painful. You take care of yourself, and if you wish to chat back and forth please feel free to do that. Hugs to you, Mary
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