Hi Judy: OMG I can't even begin to tell you how sorry I am losing my one son has basically destroyed me but losing 2 children in a 5 weeks time, I just can't even go there, I lost my father august 8th and jonathan november 19th a day before my father would have been 88 my father's death was a merciful death he had been miserable for so many years, and was ready to go see my mom and my 2 sisters but my son he had so much to live for he was to graduate this may and was moving to colorado with his best friend for college, how old was your sons? do you have any support from family members I have a daughter and 2 stepchildren but Jonathan was the baby of the family and this has tore this family apart I will keep you in my prayers I still believe in God just don't know even if he can heal a pain like your and mine and everyones elses on this site, but maybe he can ease it a little bit so we can make it another day.

 

Terri  Jonathan's mom

Hi Judy: OMG I can't even begin to tell you how sorry I am losing my one son has basically destroyed me but losing 2 children in a 5 weeks time, I just can't even go there, I lost my father august 8th and jonathan november 19th a day before my father would have been 88 my father's death was a merciful death he had been miserable for so many years, and was ready to go see my mom and my 2 sisters but my son he had so much to live for he was to graduate this may and was moving to colorado with his best friend for college, how old was your sons? do you have any support from family members I have a daughter and 2 stepchildren but Jonathan was the baby of the family and this has tore this family apart I will keep you in my prayers I still believe in God just don't know even if he can heal a pain like your and mine and everyones elses on this site, but maybe he can ease it a little bit so we can make it another day.

 

Terri  Jonathan's mom

Hi Judy My heart goes out to you. My heart is also broken . INto a thousand tiny little pieces. Life wasn't supposed to be without our beautiful children. I come here because there is no where else to go. Where do we go now. ? I hope soemhow we find our way again. love to you carrie L

Hello Judy, I hope your doing okay... How was your holiday? Mine... well we didn't celebrate Christmas I just couldn't get my self to do anything.  I'm so heartbroken, I feel I will never be happy again in my life, I can't live without my boy...How I miss him TERRIBLY!!!!!  well Judy please write when you have time , k? would love to hear from u......  Hugs   Ronda

Hi Judy.I Rev.James Durden and I was read your comments & I'm so sorry to hear you have to endure such a heavy burden,I know your heart and mind are hurt to the core,the "Nurturing" part of you is out front now and its the hardest thing to see all that has taken place,but you are a strong woman and at this present moment you just might think you can't make it don't allow yourself to fall prey to depression,guilt anger despair and all of the other things that come with "melancholy",that spirit that tries to make you dejected when all of your world has crumbling down,my friend you can make it out of this situation with your sanity intact & its my prayer that you don't isolate yourself,but stay around someome tha really understands you so that the weak moments they can quickly help you get through that period of grief,Your grief is a lot more heavier than most can ever imagine,but I have a cousin who has suffered double death and she's been in counseling for a long time now & she's a woman who see's death all the time because she's a Mortician,but Judy hat never prepared her for what she has to endure now,her brother was found floating in a swimming pool & her son was found slumped over in his car where he attended college with a bullet in the back of his head,no one has been brought to justice yet and she told me when my daughter died that there will be days that no one understands not even the closest person so I pray that you can make it through this and I know you will because God has not left you and no matter how hard the trial we've been conditioned to make it through.Your Sons would not want you too worry yourself sick even though its harder than hard.You have my prayers and support at any time you wish to talk to me you can just let me know.Be Blessed.