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Posted on November 21, 2010 at 9:43am 1 Comment 0 Likes

It is killing me I can't ever hold her again, why would god do this. It kills me the most I worked a bunch of overtime and was going to school, so I hardly saw her. Now she is gone forever. I would give anything I have to have her back for 5 minutes, even if she cried the whole time. I miss her so much and I don't know how much longer I can be the strong one

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At 11:34am on November 27, 2010, Cathy Pearly said…: Robert...no matter the age..a childs life cut short is always to fast, thats what I believe. How are you doing? Are you still being the "strong one" I havent noticed any posts from you since your first....I hope that you are able to express your feelings...trust me holding them in is not the way to go..you will find yourself a ticking time bomb waiting to explode.

At 12:55pm on November 21, 2010, Cathy Pearly said…: Robert...You don't have to be the strong one. You can be weak...you can be sad, you can miss her more than anything else in the world...you have every right to be this way...it is unfair...it sucks...it is the hardest thing you will ever have to do. Holding in your emotions is not the way to go....let them out. We would all give anything just ot have our children back for 5 minutes...just to be able to hold them and tell them we love them more than life itself...just one more time....Whoever you are being strong for will understand your pain...probably NEEDS you to grieve with them...don't hold back Robert...you worked a bunch and went to school so that you could provide a better life for your daughter...nobody blames you for this...stop blaming yourself...Come here often and tell us exactly how you feel....there is no judgement here...we can relate...all of us...you are not alone, and you need not be strong here.