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At 7:20am on May 4, 2017, shirley zurschmeide said…: It's been over nine years since Scott went away. I look at his picture and I get this pain in my heart and I can't believe he is gone from my eyes. I still and I will always cry for him.

At 7:40am on October 12, 2012, Tami said…: Hi Shirley, I am going way back to when I started this site and seeing how parents are coping, I hope that you are doing well.

Tami

At 7:40pm on June 14, 2011, Alicia Rodriguez said…: Shirley so sorry for you're loss i lost my beloved son on 7/12/09 he was 28 i miss him everday GOD BLESS YOU.

At 9:41am on December 18, 2010, Carrie L said…: Hi Shirley your blog was very nice to read. I am sorry for both of us and hope we can find some peace later. I am glad you believe in god. I am there but don't go to church much.. You are very sweet and your son was probably very much like you. I am a bit ornery and my son was like that but also very care free and very unique. thanks for talking Carrie L

At 12:52am on September 17, 2010, TAMMY said…: HELLO MS SHIRLEY HOPE ALL IS WELL WITH U AND YRS THKS 4 ADDING ME AS A FRIEND I HAVE HAD U ON MY MIND TO WONDERING HOW U WERE DOING AND ALL GOODNITE AND GOD BLESS HUN.

At 8:41pm on August 6, 2010, TAMMY said…: OOOOOOO MRS SHIRLEY GOOD 4 U IM SO GLAD 2 HEAR IT SORRY IT TOOK A MIN 4 ME 2 GET BACK 2 U BUT 4 THA LAST 3 DAYS THA SYSTEM WOULDNT LET ME LOG INTO THA SIGHT 4 SOME REASON R THA OTHER BUT ANYWAY I WANTED 2 SAY 2 U I RESPECT YOUR FEELING AND ALL BUT I ALSO WANT U 2 LIFT SOME OF THA LOAD OFF OF U AND U HAVE MADE THA FIRST STEP AND THAT IS GREAT IT WILL TAKE A LITTLE TIME AND THATS OK TAKE ALL THA TIME U NEED THERE IS NO RUSH AND THINGS WILL B BETTER 4 EVERYONE OK GOD BLESS U AND YOURS HOPE 2 HEAR FROM U SOON OK HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND BYE 4 NOW.

At 8:41pm on August 6, 2010, TAMMY said…: OOOOOOO MRS SHIRLEY GOOD 4 U IM SO GLAD 2 HEAR IT SORRY IT TOOK A MIN 4 ME 2 GET BACK 2 U BUT 4 THA LAST 3 DAYS THA SYSTEM WOULDNT LET ME LOG INTO THA SIGHT 4 SOME REASON R THA OTHER BUT ANYWAY I WANTED 2 SAY 2 U I RESPECT YOUR FEELING AND ALL BUT I ALSO WANT U 2 LIFT SOME OF THA LOAD OFF OF U AND U HAVE MADE THA FIRST STEP AND THAT IS GREAT IT WILL TAKE A LITTLE TIME AND THATS OK TAKE ALL THA TIME U NEED THERE IS NO RUSH AND THINGS WILL B BETTER 4 EVERYONE OK GOD BLESS U AND YOURS HOPE 2 HEAR FROM U SOON OK HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND BYE 4 NOW.

At 8:52pm on August 3, 2010, TAMMY said…: HI MRS SHIRLEY HOPE TODAY WAS BETTER THAN YESTERDAY MY NAME IS TAMMY AND I WAS READING YOUR POST AND MY HEART WENT OUT TO U AND THE FIRST THANG THAT CAME TO MIND WAS SCOTT WOULDNT WANT U 2 SUFFER AND WORRY ABOUT THE SMALL STUFF CAUSE HE SOUND LIKE HE WAS A LEVEL HEADED WELL PUT 2GETHER TYPE OF GUY EVEN THO THE GIRLFRIEND HAS SOMEWHAT MOVED ON AND U FEEL SHE SHOULDNT HAVE THINK ABOUT THIS HE LEFT HER THOSE THINGS BECAUSE HE WAS A GREAT LOVING GUY AND WANTED TO DO THE RIGHT THING BY HER AND THE RELATIONSHIP AT THE TIME SO IT WASNT LIKE SHE TOOK ANYTHING FROM HIM OUT OF SPITE R ANYTHING LIKE THAT AND EVEN THO HE IS GONE IN YOUR HEART OF HEARTS U NO U RAISED A MAN A WONDERFUL MAN AND HE DONT SOUND LIKE A PERSON WHO WOULD REGRET ANYTHING SO IN SAYIN THAT LET IT GO AND THINK OF ALL THE GOOD TIMES AND HAPPY TIMES U ALL SHARED AND NO HE SEE U AND HEAR U MRS SHIRLEY AND THAT HE LOVES U DEARLY AND WOULDNT WANT U TO DRAIN YOURSELF IN THIS WAY AND ALSO NO THAT WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND THE BATTLE IS NOT YOURS AND ITS ALREADY DONE LET HER AND GOD DEAL WITH IT GOD BLESS U AND I HOPE THIS HELPS IF U WANT TO TALK PLEASE LEAVE ME A MESS AND I WILL BE GLAD TO TALK TO YOU MORE BYE FOR NOW AND TRY TO REST YOUR SOUL FOR SCOTT SAKE OK SMILE SWEETIE AND REMEMBER NOTHING BUT GREAT TIMES.

At 8:52pm on August 3, 2010, TAMMY said…: HI MRS SHIRLEY HOPE TODAY WAS BETTER THAN YESTERDAY MY NAME IS TAMMY AND I WAS READING YOUR POST AND MY HEART WENT OUT TO U AND THE FIRST THANG THAT CAME TO MIND WAS SCOTT WOULDNT WANT U 2 SUFFER AND WORRY ABOUT THE SMALL STUFF CAUSE HE SOUND LIKE HE WAS A LEVEL HEADED WELL PUT 2GETHER TYPE OF GUY EVEN THO THE GIRLFRIEND HAS SOMEWHAT MOVED ON AND U FEEL SHE SHOULDNT HAVE THINK ABOUT THIS HE LEFT HER THOSE THINGS BECAUSE HE WAS A GREAT LOVING GUY AND WANTED TO DO THE RIGHT THING BY HER AND THE RELATIONSHIP AT THE TIME SO IT WASNT LIKE SHE TOOK ANYTHING FROM HIM OUT OF SPITE R ANYTHING LIKE THAT AND EVEN THO HE IS GONE IN YOUR HEART OF HEARTS U NO U RAISED A MAN A WONDERFUL MAN AND HE DONT SOUND LIKE A PERSON WHO WOULD REGRET ANYTHING SO IN SAYIN THAT LET IT GO AND THINK OF ALL THE GOOD TIMES AND HAPPY TIMES U ALL SHARED AND NO HE SEE U AND HEAR U MRS SHIRLEY AND THAT HE LOVES U DEARLY AND WOULDNT WANT U TO DRAIN YOURSELF IN THIS WAY AND ALSO NO THAT WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND THE BATTLE IS NOT YOURS AND ITS ALREADY DONE LET HER AND GOD DEAL WITH IT GOD BLESS U AND I HOPE THIS HELPS IF U WANT TO TALK PLEASE LEAVE ME A MESS AND I WILL BE GLAD TO TALK TO YOU MORE BYE FOR NOW AND TRY TO REST YOUR SOUL FOR SCOTT SAKE OK SMILE SWEETIE AND REMEMBER NOTHING BUT GREAT TIMES.

At 6:41am on July 29, 2010, shirley zurschmeide said…: Today is Scott's 40th Birthday. I will release 40 ballons at the cemetary today with help from a great friend. Memories are all I have to hang on to. This morning I lit candles all thru the house to let Scott know I was here. I put his picture on my face book page. I pray God gives me the strength to get thru the day without too many tears. I put an article in the courier jounal in memory of Scott. I was seventeen when I gave birth to him. Today I will stop drinking so much. With God's help we can do anything.