October 2010 Blog Posts (51)

Oct 31, not the same

look at how cute your niece is! Hope you are watching over her. we got a pic of her and your dad with the deer he got way back and there are two orbs on it. hope it was you and grandpa!!! is there halloween in Heaven? Bet you all dress like angels, haha. luv ya, miss ya xxxxxxoooooo

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Added by JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 on October 31, 2010 at 9:49pm — No Comments

Lossing my son Danny

I never really knew just how much my heart could hurt until my 32 year old son Danny died of colon/liver cancer. I watched him suffer for 22 months and lived with all his fears, sorrow, worries and pains right up until he took his last breath. Some people truly do not know what to say but feel a need to say something, anything and it may not be what we want to hear. The family members left behind hear all types of comments. When ever some one lingers like my son did you get comments like: He is… Continue

Added by Paulette Fanelli on October 31, 2010 at 7:11pm — No Comments

Lost & Broken

I am new to this site, but I have been searching for resources/support recently in a desperate attempt to "deal" with the sudden, brutal death of my husband. This coming Monday would have been only our second wedding anniversary and I can't begin to explain how much I am dreading getting through the day without him. We have a beautiful son together but I feel completely inadequate to raise him without his AMAZING father. At the same time, my son is my lifeline right now... there is NO WAY I… Continue

Added by Kate Lind on October 30, 2010 at 7:10pm — 4 Comments

The Late Carol J. Bradley

My friend and dear sister in Christ. Lived the life she talked about. Enjoyed sharing her time with others and was a gentle person. She was more than a friend she was a great Woman of God, a wonderful wife, loving mother and grandmother. Always took the time to care and see what she could do for you. She is in heaven with the Lord now and I can see her with that infectious laugh of hers. We love you Ms. Bradley and I will see you again. Love Ducksworth

Added by Barbara A. Ducksworth Simms on October 30, 2010 at 1:00pm — No Comments

HOLLOWEEN WEEKEND

FOR EVERYTHING THERE IS A REASON, THERE IS A SEASON, CHANGES HAPPEN MEMORIES CONTINUE LOVING THE DEAD FOREVER NO MATTER THE AGE THESE BABIES R 4EVER MISSED! MIS U EVERY DAY! I HAVE THE UNDERLYING EMPTINESS OF MY HEART IS FILLED WITH MISSING MY BOY :<)

Added by Karen ~ Kenny's Mom on October 30, 2010 at 8:37am — No Comments

Making Decisions Alone

This week I am overwhelmed. My car broke down and I have to decide what to do. Everyone has their own opinion. My son, my co-workers, everyone has a different opinion and could have made a better decision than I did. I feel so alone!

Added by Deana Fletcher_mower on October 29, 2010 at 1:58pm — No Comments

Added Moments

What's in a moment

A second of time

Sixty added up

A minute of mine

What's in a minute

Count them 1-2-3

Stopping at sixty

Just an hour to me

Hour after hour

Added that way

Twenty-four totaled

Makes my day

Day after…

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Added by Leonard Shick on October 27, 2010 at 11:00pm — No Comments

Forty Five Weeks!

Stop hurting O My Heart!

I'm Gone now,…

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Added by Hurting on October 27, 2010 at 3:33pm — 2 Comments

Well Jason, we miss you so much. You will have your Birthday coming up on November 9th. You would have been 22 years old if you had not died! I know I will never understand why God takes such good, y…

Well Jason, we miss you so much. You will have your Birthday coming up on November 9th. You would have been 22 years old if you had not died! I know I will never understand why God takes such good, young people. Your brother is doing good in school. He has a beautiful girlfriend that I know you would like. I like her. Well, I miss you so much!!!! LOVE YOU PRINCE HILTY AND ALWAYS WILL!!!!!! LOVE MOM Continue

Added by Jason's mother Becky on October 26, 2010 at 7:39am — No Comments

Thought for the moment

On Oct 30, 2010 he would have been 35, I thought the other day how I had brought a birthday cake to him back in 1997, for his 21 birthday in my little black tight dress, hair done the whole works :) He had such a big smile on his face when he saw me standing there with his cake singing Happy Birthday. I had later found out that it was the first cake he had since he was a baby. I miss his smile and hugs most of all. The way he looked at me ... with such love. How young and blind I was. He never… Continue

Added by Dena on October 25, 2010 at 9:13am — No Comments

HAPPY HALLOWEEN 2010

THIS WAS THE LAST TIME WE DID A PUMPKIN TOGETHER. WE LOVE THIS PICTURE SHOWING HOW HAPPY YOU ALWAYS WERE. LOVE AND MISS YOU DEARLY. MOM, DAD, AND FAMILY. KEEP WATCHING OVER. XXXXXOOOOO

Added by JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 on October 25, 2010 at 12:21am — 4 Comments

23 eternally on this 26th. birthday 10/24/2010

Stopped by to say goodnight moon I love you kenny to the moon and back again. Momma will always be your cheerleader & safety net! I hope you know it then,now and forever! I love you my kenny ;{} To wish peace in all of the hearts and minds of parents with deceased children whose birthday would be today 10/24! No matter the years that pass these babies,children or adult children are missed.
Sweet dreams my son:)

Added by Karen ~ Kenny's Mom on October 24, 2010 at 9:00pm — No Comments

My daughter Tiffany passed away 4 weeks and 3 days ago. I still can't believe that this happened and that she is gone. I keep waiting to wake up from this nightmare. Everything I do and see reminds m…

My daughter Tiffany passed away 4 weeks and 3 days ago. I still can't believe that this happened and that she is gone. I keep waiting to wake up from this nightmare. Everything I do and see reminds me of her. When I am alone I do nothing but cry. I go into stores where there are things that remind me that she isn't here, like kid's things, it reminds me that I won't ever have the opportunity to help her name a baby, I won't have the opportunity to cradle my grandchild, her child in my arms. I… Continue

Added by Francine Bretz on October 23, 2010 at 7:20pm — 4 Comments

I Would Give.....Written June 27th, 2005 For Nathan Leggett

I would give you all my mornings,

All my sun-filled days,

To know that you are safe from harm,

And protected in every way.

I would give you all the air I breathe,

And every one I've spent,

To know that your life is full of joy,

All around you, flowing bliss.

I would give up every beautiful sight

That my eyes have ever beheld,

To know that you now…

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Added by Trudy Leggett on October 23, 2010 at 5:00pm — 2 Comments

Alex Remembered

IN MEMORY OF :

ALEXANDER SHICK

8-6-04 TO 9-21-07

Just memories

Only when a loss so dear

Brings to all eyes full of tear

A year ago, a soul then taken

To our Lord, yet not forsaken.

Pains our heart the silence still

Emotions contolled with a wonder pill

Yet memories of joy heal our…

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Added by Leonard Shick on October 23, 2010 at 9:30am — No Comments

Not Quite A Year , missin my Sis and now......

Dec.8 will mark the 1 year aniversary of my sisters sudden death .The pain of losing her is still fresh,and now I'm holding up as best I can after losing my Dad on Oct.11.He was 89 yrs. old and I'm blessed that I had him as long as I did,that still doesn't make the pain of losing a loved one any easier.The 3 of us were quite close,the day she passed I knew my Dad had all the tragedy one can take.He began to eat less and in aug. the dr. confirmed the news that my dad was… Continue

Added by Freddie Reyes on October 23, 2010 at 5:45am — 1 Comment

Eight Months Today

Today, we've passed another milestone, honey. Eight months since you left me. Eight months since I was thrown into a tailspin. Eight months since the beginning of the heart break. And eight months since the last time that I recall being happy.

How I wish you were here with me. This past summer would have been so much different. We would have had so much fun. We always had fun together, just being together. You could make me laugh, make me think, make me imagine and dream. I miss you.… Continue

Added by Colleen on October 22, 2010 at 6:52pm — No Comments

Birthday Sunday October 24th. Kenny would be 26!

Big times of the year like this makes missing Kenny so much more evident... the pain rushes in! But I have begun to believe he is in such a good place I pray he is. Watching his son grow bigger and stronger! His baby Ethan is 3 now! The years are passing and I miss my son as much today as the first year! Kenny eternally 23!

Added by Karen ~ Kenny's Mom on October 22, 2010 at 4:00pm — 1 Comment

Could it be?

My daughter took this picture yesterday outside my house. I thought it looked odd so I had a closer look. My son's face is in the back window of the truck. I had to share!

Added by Susan Jason's Mom on October 22, 2010 at 2:05pm — No Comments

YEAR ONE

Y ou left us last fall, a year ago,
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E veryday since then is a bad dream, you know.
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A life cut short, no future to grow,
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R ipped away leaving nothing to fill the jagged chasm below.
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O nly memories, dreams and at times an open window.
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N othing physical remains to show but,
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E mpty hearts still wounded by a fatal blow.
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LB 10/29/10

Added by laura b on October 21, 2010 at 2:54pm — No Comments