I sit here this morning wondering and thinking.I'm in a new relationship with a very careing guy who is a widower we get along great and share our past and are making a future together.As much as we miss our spouses and wish they were still here we know this is our present.The problem is his adult children,at first they seemed to be happy for us but now as they see with time that we are a couple they are having problems.They weren't speaking to him for a bit but now through his continued… Continue

Well I am doing something I didn't think I would have done. I am selling some of our things at auction it really is bitter sweet as I was pulling out the different clocks I remembered when it was bought, I'm just a little torn but it  needs to be done and for a good reason. I know you understand ! the talks we had tells me you would be ok with it. I will always have the great memories nothing will take them away. I am ok with it  and why I am doing it.  

I wonder why I keep comming to this site. I try not to but everyday I still come here I don't feel I should have the need to as I'm in a new relationship. We are doing good we are happy together even tho there are some bumps in the road but we are smoothing them out as we go. We are dealing with a pretty big one now and how that will work out is yet to be seen.I truely don't understand the need to come here at first I thought it was to help the new people as I was helped when I came here but it… Continue

  I'm not sure this is the right place to do this but I think it is. It will be 22 months the 29 th of this month since I lost my husband. Today I can say I am once again able to smile,laugh and be happy. I have been very fortunate and blessed to have found someone to share my life with again. We met on this site and he lost his wife 13 days before I lost my husband. Neither one of us were looking for anyone else,we were grieving for our spouses simple as that. Throughout this process we began… Continue