Violet la pollo's Blog (7)

MISSING FRIENDS TO HELP ME COPE AND INSPIRE ME

i HAVE NOT BEEN ON THIS SITE FOR A WHILE AND TRULY MISSED WHAT OTHERS HAVE WRITTEN AND BECAME FRIENDS WITH ALL OF US WHO MOURN THE PASSING OF SOMEONE WE LOVE

Added by violet la pollo on January 12, 2011 at 9:29pm — No Comments

another empty year

It is three years dec 20th my love passsed and how I hate christmas eve the day I had to say goodbye and lay him to rest.I am still so lonely and empty I just sit and mourn everyday ,wishing I had one more moment with him,when your soulmate dies you die to and no one can understand those feelings until they are in the same shoes.holidaays are so bad when you are alone after so many years with your husband,missing him forever till I go  and rest beside his side.

Added by violet la pollo on December 22, 2010 at 9:23pm — 2 Comments

NO FRIENDS

WISH SOMEONE BE A FRIEND AND WRITE TO ME ,I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO INVITE A FRIEND MY E-MAIL?vickson2@verizon.net really need friends to communicate with before i have a complete breakdown

Added by violet la pollo on February 14, 2010 at 9:02pm — 2 Comments

THE CLOSER THE HOLIDAYS THE MORE MY HEART ACHES

CHRISTMAS IS COMING AND I HATE IT,MY BELOVED HUSBAND WAS BURIED ON CHRISTMAS EVE AND I AM SO SICK MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY THINKING ABOUT GETTING THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS AGAIN,PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME THROUGH THIS WITH WORDS OF WISDOM,COURAGE AND HOW THEY MADE IT ,I REALLY DONT THINK I CAN DO IT THIS YEAR IT IS HARDER THAN EVER NOT SEEING HIM OR TALKING TO HIM ,COFFEE IN THE EARLY MORNING WAITING FOR THE CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN TO COME ,NOW THEY DONT LIKE TO COME HERE BECAUSE THEIR DAD AND… Continue

Added by violet la pollo on December 12, 2009 at 9:36pm — 3 Comments

holidays are now heartaches

as the holiday season approches I find my heart getting heavier,thinking of the past when happy and my husband with me,now all I can do is remember christmas eve is when he was laid to rest,.I feel as though it gets harder everyday and to think of thanksgiving what is there to be thankful for? does anyone feel the same as I as the only peace we will have is when we are laid to rest beside them?

Added by violet la pollo on November 8, 2009 at 9:58am — 1 Comment

grief is everlasting

dec 20 2009 it will be 2 years since losing my husband and as time passes the grief grows deeper and the holidays I fear the most ,never will a happy occassion for me,when god takes your loved one he also takes your heart,

Added by violet la pollo on October 23, 2009 at 9:17pm — No Comments

my grief is unbearable

my husband suffered 3 years with bone cancer,last 6 months confined home with hospice,i watched him in agony and could not helpwe knew he was dying and could not do anything,he passed dec 20 2007 and was buried christmas eve and not by choice,I was told his skin was already changing and if he was buried later after xmas eve it would be closed casket which i did not want and as hard as that was hardly anyone came remarking how could i be so cold as to have my husband buried on dec 24 this has… Continue

Added by violet la pollo on June 25, 2009 at 8:50am — 2 Comments

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