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when family disappoints you

My husband died suddenly and unexpectedly 4 months ago while we were on vacation, in a drowning accident.

I have 3 teenage boys, and thye really have been my strentgh and support. I also come from a big family, and have lived very close , spending lots of time together with the cousins and sisters over the years. It hasn't always been harmony, but i have always had my husband to come home to, talk about things and learned to let the small differences go. At first everyone was very… Continue

Added by sheila on April 7, 2010 at 8:07pm — 1 Comment

i'm trying to understand

I have very recently lost my husband of 32 years.

we were vacationing together and he drowned in a rip tide.

I swam to shore and tryed to call for help to several surfers nearby, one finally got to him with their surfboard but he could not hold on, apparently he had taken in too much water. when the rescue team got there they could not resusitate him. I feel terrible guilt as it was my suggestion to go for the swim(we are both swimmers) even though the water looked rough, there were… Continue

Added by sheila on February 17, 2010 at 7:51pm — No Comments

I'm trying to understand

I am a Christain, i'm trying to understand the age old question of "why bad things happen to good people"

Also,does God have a predestined plan for us, knowing when He will take us Home ?

3 months ago while vacationing together at the ocean, my husband and I went for a swim, it was my suggestion and I feel terrible guilt. He drowned in a rip tide and I swam to the shore. I knew I was not strong enough to pull him in, so desparatly tired to get the attention of several surfers near… Continue

Added by sheila on February 16, 2010 at 8:58pm — No Comments

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