PLEASE DO NOT CHAT FOR 30 MIN TO THE FAMILY OF THE DECEASED DURING VISITATION THIS IS NEITHER THE TIME NOR PLACE FOR SUCH THINGS, TELL THEM "YOUR SORRY FOR THEIR LOSS AND YOU WILL SPEAK TO THEM LATER", IN MOST CASES THERE ARE MANY OTHER PEOPLE BEHIND YOU WAITING TO VIEW THE DECEASED AND SPEAK TO THE FAMILY AS WELL, TO ME THIS IS THE MOST RUDE THING TO DO AT FUNERALS/VISITATIONS. I HAVE HONESTLY BEEN BEHIND PEOPLE BEFORE AND WHEN THEY GOT UP TO THE FAMILY STARTED CHATTING ABOUT "THE GOOD OLE TIMES" AND WHAT HAPPENED 10 YEARS AGO, I REALIZE YOU WANT TO MAKE THE PERSON OR PERSON'S REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES OF THE DECEASED BUT THIS IS NOT THE TIME NOR PLACE TO DO THAT WHEN THERE ARE OTHER PEOPLE BEHIND YOU WAITING TO SEE THE FAMILY AS WELL, I WAS BEHIND A PERSON THAT TALKED FOR 15 MIN, YES 15 MIN TO THE FAMILY ABOUT "NOTHING", I WAS EMBARRASED FOR THE FAMILY AND THE PERSON, BE CONSIDERATE OF OTHERS AND ALSO CONSIDER THE FACT THAT THE FAMILY IS TIRED THEY HAVE TO HUG, SHAKE AND SPEAK TO EVERY SINGLE PERSON THAT COMES THROUGH THAT LINE I ASSURE YOU THEY WILL NOT REMEMBER HALF (IF ANYTHING OF WHAT YOU SAID) , SPEAK TO THEM AT A LATER TIME, MAYBE DROP BY ONE DAY AFTER AND TALK WITH THEM ABOUT THE "GOOD OLE DAYS" AND MAKE THEM SMILE BUT DO NOT DO THIS AT VISITATION/FUNERALS IT'S RUDE AMONG OTHER THINGS. THE PEOPLE BEHIND YOU WILL APPRECIATE IT AND I ASSURE YOU THE FAMILY WILL TOO....... IS THIS JUST ME, OR DOES OTHER PEOPLE FEEL THE SAME WAY????