It's been three months and the hurt is hard and people act like nothing has happened. My dear Mother passed on Nov. 29th and it was too soon, I thought we had many more years together, she died 23 months after my Dad. I'm so sad that she left me, that they both left, Too Soon. I wish they were hear.
Thank you Ali, I've considered joining a support group. But have not, as of yet. I came across this site last week and it does help to share similar experiences. No one can truly help unless they have lived through this.
Ruth,
I am so sorry for your losses! I really think that they follow each other. My dad passed away suddenly in Sept. 2007, my mom passed away from cancer December, 2009. It has only been a few months since my has passed and it feels like a lifetime! I feel like my parents carried my identity and now I am no longer the same person. My heart has shattered. I will tell you that this website has helped me, I have a new email friend from here. It helps to share stories. I also started seeing a counselor from Hospice. My heart goes out to you and I pray that you will find some comfort soon.
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