my dad commited suicide 3 years ago, the first year is hard the second xmas you have come to terms with it, he was obviously depressed, alcoholic and mentally ill. i found a good counsellor to get over the three months after the funeral.
this may seem inappropriate but im desperately looking for realtives in boston, i am registered on ancestory.com. my granduncle william connell, born 1903 in kaelfadda goleen west cork ireland came via cork and new york to boston 1920/s 30s, died boston 1970s, his family did come to ireland in the 1970s and met my auntWilliam niece mary o keffee nee coughlan in kerry with her husband 2 young sons, a cousin ritchard connell bought property in dublin in the 1970s . William was 8 during the 1911 censis in ireland, my gran mother mary his sister was just 2. she is deceased since 1987, married a daniel coughlan , resisided colleras, goleen cork, ireland. I will have information next week on his wife she was irish and also from west cork and they had 4 fours. coughlanbernie@gmail.com