I want to share one lesson that I have learned since the passing of my beloved Noreen 34 months ago. In my case it has to do with my sons...no daughters.. and other family members who have not even mentioned her name to me or talked about her in well over a year, This is a mother who at one time worked 49 straight days....sometimes 10 hours a day....in a hot manufacturing plant so that her family could have a better life.
It seems that they are ignoring her sacrifice and her very existence and this bothers me greatly. They seem to have moved on where I am stuck in my grief and I suppose the proper thing is to be happy that they do not suffer as I do.
I have therefore decided to let them off the hook when it comes to my time. I will be cremated and request no visitation or viewing in my will and hope that this allows all to get over my death as quickly as possible.
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