I lost my brother a little ove a week ago

He was my twin brother and my only sibling.  I had no idea that he would take his own life.  He did leave a note and his estranged wife, who he was recently separated from, said the police said they would give it back in 4-6 months.  Does that sound right and is there any way I can get a copy of the note?  My heart is breaking and I'd just like to maybe get some closure and find out what my brother was thinking those last few moments of his life.

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Comment by Gina Mason on November 27, 2011 at 5:27pm


First, let me say that I am so sorry for the utterly tragic loss of your brother. Being twins, I would assume it's even more difficult. I truly am so very sorry.


In reference to obtaining a copy (or rightfully, the original) note your brother left behind; I know for a fact that if you make a nuisance of yourself and CALL the police station OFTEN and ask for it again and again, they WILL give it to you.  Absolutely don't just wait the 4-6 months for THEM to decide to get it back to you. They likely won't. It's not a priority for them as it is you.  I will be wishing you peace and comfort for the future...



Comment by Shea on November 15, 2011 at 11:15am

Vicki I know the feeling of wanting answers my brother hung himself October 24, 2011 a little over three weeks ago. He to was going thru a divorce. He did not leave a note, but his last conversation with anyone was her and it was an hr before he killed himself we have phone records. I replay in my head all the time what his last day was all the way up till the point the morgue stuck him in the van and drove off. I have gone counceling I have been told I have PDST now over this me my sister and my brother where best friends and I still have no answers.

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