Today is the 1 month anniversary of my son Jayden's death... A month ago today I left him with a babysitter who had watched him and my 3 daughters many times before. i gave him a hug and kiss and told him i loved him and set off to work... i got home at 6:18 that evening to find out that my son was MISSING!!!!! I went crazly hysterical looking for him! while the babysitter sat on the couch telling me she had already looked there. so i went outside to look for him, i found him at 6:45pm in an abandoned car with the doors locked and windows rolled up! I couldn't believe it!!! There was no way that it was my baby!!! My son was 2yrs 3months old and was 4ft tall very intelegent he would have gotten out of that car. he had many times. she never once called me or the cops to report him missing.... plz parents pay attention to who you leave your kids with...I fully trusted this woman. Had no idea in my mind that she would allow him out of her sight....

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Comment by geri on September 1, 2010 at 10:46am
DEAR SHANNA, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR DEVASTATING LOSS OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL LITTLE SON, JAYDEN.I PRAY JUSTICE IS ON YOR SIDE.GOD BLESS YOU, AND YOUR FAMILY.GERI
Comment by Rory Duran on August 26, 2010 at 1:37am
I grieve with you. Such a loss! Betrayal is the emotion I would feeling. I lost my precious grandson to an infection, because no medical person was paying attention. You must be beating yourself up - but you are not responsible. Of course you would change things if you could. This is a heart shattering experience. This site is a safety net. Come here - vent, explode, condemn - whatever you need to do, we understand and will comfort you as best we can. The loss of your precious angel is soul killing. None of us want to be in this club, but here we are - to offer support to each other. Keep us informed, let us share your pain and frustration. We do understand.
Comment by shanna woodward on August 25, 2010 at 1:53pm
thanks...accually no charges have been filed yet... the M.E hasn't determind his cause of death yet....it's been 30 days and still nothing...no one can do anything till we get back the cause of death...so tired of waiting why is it taking so long????
Comment by CANDACE BRIGHTWELL on August 25, 2010 at 11:53am
Oh Shana I am so sorry to hear of this and read your story I too lost a son but a baby is so sad so little time so negligent of the babysitter I hope she was proscuted

Candace
Comment by Tami on August 25, 2010 at 4:04am
Shanna, I am so so sorry for your loss! This is unbelieveable! And the unemotionlees actions of the babysitter, I dont know what to tell you, I am only a year into my loss, I cant tell you the best time I have is crying my heart out in the shower, It is such a relief to get it all out. I wish I could hold you and comfort you, If you have any pictures I would love to see Jayden, If It isnt too hard for you, Much love and many hugs to you .

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