I haven't logged onto this site for a while but Heatha was kind enough to send me a nice note in hopes I'm doing alright. 

I really appreciate that. 

And the answer is I'm doing okay : )  

I will check in here from time to time to at least view from the sidelines (modus cottidianus) but I'm at a point where I want to keep facing forward and not spend so much time looking back, which is what happens to me when I do log on.  No right or wrong, just the way I am - something that I learned about myself soon after signing up here in the first place, a small epiphany that I might have never had otherwise.  And for that I'm also grateful.

But it's good to know this community is here... just in case!

Until then, my best hopes and wishes to everyone

Andrew