My 6 yr old Granddaughter was shot and killed by her 2 yr old brother (my Grandson) on May 29,2011. I been overwhelmed with so many emotions and have no clue where to turn to. It was a terrible accident that could have been avoided so my anger is at an all time high and I don't know what to do with it.

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Comment by Ronda Lee Malailua on December 9, 2011 at 9:26pm

Thank you both so much for the words of encouragement. I did start counseling shortly after, I also attended my first meeting at Compassionate Friends last month, I have been going to Grief Share for 3 months and they just opened a new place called The Solace Tree that I will attend twice a month. Susan I am stuck in anger. Does that end?

Susan you have a beautiful family, and I am sorry for loss as well. I could not imagine losing one of my children, as I'm not dealing with the death of my Granddaughter to well.

Ilona your Grandson looks so happy in that picture! Hold that smile in your heart!   Ronda

Comment by Ilona H Hertz on December 9, 2011 at 8:11pm
I lost my grandson. I know how you feel. It is the worst!!! Keep coming back for strength and to know you are not alone. Gavin's grandma
Comment by Susan - Donny's Mom on December 9, 2011 at 6:49pm

So sorry to hear of your terrible family tragedy.  You are now in the 2nd stage of grief.  After the shock/denial comes the anger.  You need to talk to someone, friends, family or clergy.  If you have none of those then maybe the Compassionate Friends in your area. 

What happened was a horrible accident.  I am very sorry for your loss.  You have found a good website here on Legacy.  People was wonderful, kind and caring.  Post whenever you want and there is always someone to give some good helpful advice.

You can click on my sons picture and it will take you to my personal page.  If you scroll all the way down passed the comments you will meet my family and his family.  We are coming onto two years out.  We lost Donny on christmas morning 2009.


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