Today marks my brothers 3rd anniversary. I miss him everyday. Since then I found out how he really passed. It upsets me even more, but there's nothing I can do about it now. I've always been there to protect him and the one time he needed me I wasn't there. I'm guesssing we will never know what happened that night, but I have an idea. Looking back on that night and day at the hospital seeing how his girlfriend acted made me think. She got real angry at me when she asked for his apartment key. I know now I shouldn't have given her the keys, but she was yelling at me so I gave in and gave them to her. Big mistake. But what's done is done. I'm of fun to visit him at the cemetery.

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Comment by Lynne Garcia on October 23, 2016 at 12:00am
Thank you Melinda. I know my brothers spirit is with me everyday watching over me. We were really close. I have another brother he's 3 years younger than me. The one who passed was the baby he was 10 years younger than me. We got along better than outother brother. They weren't speaking to each other at the time my brother passed. So for awhile he was taking his anger out on me. I do believe we will meet again.
Comment by Melinda CANDACE Guinn on October 22, 2016 at 5:59pm

I'm sorry Lynn. My brother passed 9/22/14.He had PHT, Pulmonary HyperTension. He's a Respiratory Therapist and gave breathing treatments to patients in the hospital. I think they'll discover he should've been wearing a mask. I have another theory but I don't want to go there. He and his wife have a 21 yr old daughter, who's following in her parent's footsteps and is becoming a Doctor. My brother's wife is a nurse. They met in the hospital at work. Doug would've turned 55 in a month and a half. I told him to take my lung so his heart wouldn't have to work double-duty but he refused. He passed from a heart attack! I live in NV and they're in CA.  I was going to visit him Thursday but he passed Tuesday. I called him everyday. When I called to talk to him, his wife answered the phone and when I asked to talk to Doug, she said, "he's gone". In shock, I couldn't listen to another word so I slammed the phone down and went to my sister's. Thinking I misunderstood, maybe he had left the room for X-Rays, I called her back shortly and my niece, his daughter, answered the phone, and she slammed the phone down on me. Tensions were rampant, so we never mention the uncivilized incident again. May the Lord bring you peace and comfort you. I believe in the God. The body dies, not the essence of our brothers. I think Doug's Spirit is right next to me in another dimension. God WILL reunite us! Try not to be too sad, you'll see him again.

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