I am trying me best to keep my wife's family together and act like a real father to her kids...real dad has taken off. But they just want to blame me for her death, say that I didn't really love her, make comments that are untrue, and not have anything to do with me. Her youngest has no job, drinks constantly(I don't know where he gets the money), and lives in my wife's house. I have supported him financially(until now) and he won't relinquish mom's car to me. He has made up a story that she wanted him to have her car. He has totalled 4 cars already. Her daughter wants her home and wants to sell it so she can have the proceeds. I don't care about the house, but her car we bought together, and I want it for sentimental reasons. I guess it's true that "blood is thicker than water".