Has anybody wondered what happens after death. I am hindu so in my religion there is reincarnation and if you have paid & collected all the debts then you go to the final stage where there is no more life cycle processes anymore. Now my questions are:

If this is just one cycle and his soul has left this life. Would my being miserable and sad keep on pulling him back?
Am I doing the right thing by pulling him back instead of letting him move forward?
The relationship that we form in this life is it body to body, heart to heart or soul to soul?
I know that I am constantly hurting since he left, is it just my body, heart or soul?
Where is he now?