It's been so long I was thinking about you these past few months finally got the time to reset my account and log on! Feel so bad that it's been so long since I've checked in! Hope to hear from you soon. John 5:28,29- "all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice....and come out"
You and your son are in my thoughts today. I hope the day goes by fast for you and I'm sending you hugs! (((())))
At 9:50am on September 13, 2011, valerie moore said…
felicia, enjoy the day with your friends eating nachos and remembering your beautiful son. he will be looking down on all of you and smiling his beautiful smile. sending love and hugs your way. valerie
Felicia, I'm with you on taking back my life. I have a 21 y.o. son and my wife and we still have to go on and be strong for on another. Like your son, my son passed with heart complications. He would have been 28 y.o. on Tuesday. I just can't believe how many other wise young heathy young people seem to have some sort of heart complications.
Your son looks like a very happy young man in his pic and I'm sure you played the biggest part in his happiness. He was so loved and knew this til his last breath on this life and he knows it even more in the heavenly skies. You would never believe how many parents and children live 50...60 yrs and are never ever happy together. You made every day in his life on this earth the best it could be. I'm proud to have met you on this site and I'm very sure that he's more proud. Take care!
Felicia, I'm with you on taking back my life. I have a 21 y.o. son and my wife and we still have to go on and be strong for on another. Like your son, my son passed with heart complications. He would have been 28 y.o. on Tuesday. I just can't believe how many other wise young heathy young people seem to have some sort of heart complications.
Your son looks like a very happy young man in his pic and I'm sure you played the biggest part in his happiness. He was so loved and knew this til his last breath on this life and he knows it even more in the heavenly skies. You would never believe how many parents and children live 50...60 yrs and are never ever happy together. You made every day in his life on this earth the best it could be. I'm proud to have met you on this site and I'm very sure that he's more proud. Take care!
Just want to thank you for all your prayers you send out to all of us here on this website. They are comforting when I read them.
Your son has the warmest smile.....bet he was just as warm on the inside you can just feel it.
I too lost an older son and miss my big guy all the time. Some days I sit and stare at his picture and just can't believe I will never see him or get a big bear hug from him ever again.....sad.
I also did my son's taxes this past week. I waited until the last week dreading the thought of going through his last W-2's. He has a refund due but it all goes into his probate court checking account. He has some outstanding debt and eventually the courts will settle his estate and pay off his debt. My son has a really nice Mustang convertable and I'm not sure if we'll have to sell it or how that works. If they give me and option of purchasing it at a discount, I'll do that. Take care and I also pray for all of us and our loved ones.
I also did my son's taxes this past week. I waited until the last week dreading the thought of going through his last W-2's. He has a refund due but it all goes into his probate court checking account. He has some outstanding debt and eventually the courts will settle his estate and pay off his debt. My son has a really nice Mustang convertable and I'm not sure if we'll have to sell it or how that works. If they give me and option of purchasing it at a discount, I'll do that. Take care and I also pray for all of us and our loved ones.
Felicia, I think you are handling this just like we all did or do on any special day. I will wish you a belated birthday wish just because its the thing to do.
I stayed in bed as much as I could thru the first two yrs of holidays and birthdays. I turned down get togethers with my own sisters and family. I told them, I wasnt ready to do Thanksgiving, Xmas, or smile at any other gatherings. I didnt want a cake. I think I could have done it different, but its too late now.
The only ones I did go to were my daughters best friend forever's wedding. they were like sisters. she now has a baby boy born on the date of my Amy's accident. She was due on the date she passed and she said to me, God took one angel and gave me another!" I still have not seen this child. that was sept 13th 2010. She does post on facebook.
I have not seen my sisters gchild, born in nov. 2008, after my child passed and or have I seen her sister who looked up to my Amy. I have not seen my parents, who live close by more than 3 times. I still see the hurt on my dads face when we told him on his birthday, 9/15th, that she was in ICU and prob wouldnt make it. They all know I am not myself and I dont know when I will ever be that or this new person we are all supposed to be.
We all say crying helps. Posting messages here on your page also to your loved one. post pictures in his memory. Let him know you missed his smile on your special day just as if you were talking to him. We wont judge you thats for sure.
I hope your son can send you some kind of a sign as a birthday present from heaven, it may be small but keep your eyes open it might just be a penny on the ground or as big as a round up clock just start working again, that is what happened to me yesterday when i was so down, my son had a round up clock in his room and i was just crying uncontrobly i told him i needed a sign he was still around just then i heard a tick tick i looked down on the floor and his clock was working it worked for 3 minutes my son has been dead for 4 months, I haven't gotten to my birthday yet but my husbands is tomorrow so i know this is going to be hard on him i wish you the best you can be today hugs to you and your family
I hope your son can send you some kind of a sign as a birthday present from heaven, it may be small but keep your eyes open it might just be a penny on the ground or as big as a round up clock just start working again, that is what happened to me yesterday when i was so down, my son had a round up clock in his room and i was just crying uncontrobly i told him i needed a sign he was still around just then i heard a tick tick i looked down on the floor and his clock was working it worked for 3 minutes my son has been dead for 4 months, I haven't gotten to my birthday yet but my husbands is tomorrow so i know this is going to be hard on him i wish you the best you can be today hugs to you and your family
Felecia, I know you can't believe it. Some days I think I've accepted the fact that I've lost my son, but at other times, it's so hard to believe that I'm even trying to accept such a thing. I wish I could wake up from this bad dream and I know you do too. I lost my son at the age of 31. I saw him 3 days before his accident - we were celebrating my birthday. My own birthday is going to be a hard day from now own. I'm so thankful we had that time together with him though and I'm thankful I called and talked with him the night of his accident. I pray that God will see you through your son's birthday. I hope you can do something special in his memory.
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It's been so long I was thinking about you these past few months finally got the time to reset my account and log on! Feel so bad that it's been so long since I've checked in! Hope to hear from you soon. John 5:28,29- "all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice....and come out"
Felicia,
You and your son are in my thoughts today. I hope the day goes by fast for you and I'm sending you hugs! (((())))
I just want you to know you're in my thoughts today and I wish I were able to give you a big hug or just to be there with you.
Felicia, I'm with you on taking back my life. I have a 21 y.o. son and my wife and we still have to go on and be strong for on another. Like your son, my son passed with heart complications. He would have been 28 y.o. on Tuesday. I just can't believe how many other wise young heathy young people seem to have some sort of heart complications.
Your son looks like a very happy young man in his pic and I'm sure you played the biggest part in his happiness. He was so loved and knew this til his last breath on this life and he knows it even more in the heavenly skies. You would never believe how many parents and children live 50...60 yrs and are never ever happy together. You made every day in his life on this earth the best it could be. I'm proud to have met you on this site and I'm very sure that he's more proud. Take care!
Felicia, I'm with you on taking back my life. I have a 21 y.o. son and my wife and we still have to go on and be strong for on another. Like your son, my son passed with heart complications. He would have been 28 y.o. on Tuesday. I just can't believe how many other wise young heathy young people seem to have some sort of heart complications.
Your son looks like a very happy young man in his pic and I'm sure you played the biggest part in his happiness. He was so loved and knew this til his last breath on this life and he knows it even more in the heavenly skies. You would never believe how many parents and children live 50...60 yrs and are never ever happy together. You made every day in his life on this earth the best it could be. I'm proud to have met you on this site and I'm very sure that he's more proud. Take care!
Miss Felecia,
I feel I have not spoken to you in years! How are you? I so look forward to hearing from you, take care.
Just want to thank you for all your prayers you send out to all of us here on this website. They are comforting when I read them.
Your son has the warmest smile.....bet he was just as warm on the inside you can just feel it.
I too lost an older son and miss my big guy all the time. Some days I sit and stare at his picture and just can't believe I will never see him or get a big bear hug from him ever again.....sad.
Prayers back to you and hugs too.
Susan Forever Donny's Mom
Felicia,
I also did my son's taxes this past week. I waited until the last week dreading the thought of going through his last W-2's. He has a refund due but it all goes into his probate court checking account. He has some outstanding debt and eventually the courts will settle his estate and pay off his debt. My son has a really nice Mustang convertable and I'm not sure if we'll have to sell it or how that works. If they give me and option of purchasing it at a discount, I'll do that. Take care and I also pray for all of us and our loved ones.
Felicia,
I also did my son's taxes this past week. I waited until the last week dreading the thought of going through his last W-2's. He has a refund due but it all goes into his probate court checking account. He has some outstanding debt and eventually the courts will settle his estate and pay off his debt. My son has a really nice Mustang convertable and I'm not sure if we'll have to sell it or how that works. If they give me and option of purchasing it at a discount, I'll do that. Take care and I also pray for all of us and our loved ones.
Felicia, I think you are handling this just like we all did or do on any special day. I will wish you a belated birthday wish just because its the thing to do.
I stayed in bed as much as I could thru the first two yrs of holidays and birthdays. I turned down get togethers with my own sisters and family. I told them, I wasnt ready to do Thanksgiving, Xmas, or smile at any other gatherings. I didnt want a cake. I think I could have done it different, but its too late now.
The only ones I did go to were my daughters best friend forever's wedding. they were like sisters. she now has a baby boy born on the date of my Amy's accident. She was due on the date she passed and she said to me, God took one angel and gave me another!" I still have not seen this child. that was sept 13th 2010. She does post on facebook.
I have not seen my sisters gchild, born in nov. 2008, after my child passed and or have I seen her sister who looked up to my Amy. I have not seen my parents, who live close by more than 3 times. I still see the hurt on my dads face when we told him on his birthday, 9/15th, that she was in ICU and prob wouldnt make it. They all know I am not myself and I dont know when I will ever be that or this new person we are all supposed to be.
We all say crying helps. Posting messages here on your page also to your loved one. post pictures in his memory. Let him know you missed his smile on your special day just as if you were talking to him. We wont judge you thats for sure.
Again, I am so sorry to hear you too are here.
hugs
joyce
Felecia:
I hope your son can send you some kind of a sign as a birthday present from heaven, it may be small but keep your eyes open it might just be a penny on the ground or as big as a round up clock just start working again, that is what happened to me yesterday when i was so down, my son had a round up clock in his room and i was just crying uncontrobly i told him i needed a sign he was still around just then i heard a tick tick i looked down on the floor and his clock was working it worked for 3 minutes my son has been dead for 4 months, I haven't gotten to my birthday yet but my husbands is tomorrow so i know this is going to be hard on him i wish you the best you can be today hugs to you and your family
Felecia:
I hope your son can send you some kind of a sign as a birthday present from heaven, it may be small but keep your eyes open it might just be a penny on the ground or as big as a round up clock just start working again, that is what happened to me yesterday when i was so down, my son had a round up clock in his room and i was just crying uncontrobly i told him i needed a sign he was still around just then i heard a tick tick i looked down on the floor and his clock was working it worked for 3 minutes my son has been dead for 4 months, I haven't gotten to my birthday yet but my husbands is tomorrow so i know this is going to be hard on him i wish you the best you can be today hugs to you and your family
Hello Miss Felecia, is that a picture of your son? my condolences for your loss
Felecia, I know you can't believe it. Some days I think I've accepted the fact that I've lost my son, but at other times, it's so hard to believe that I'm even trying to accept such a thing. I wish I could wake up from this bad dream and I know you do too. I lost my son at the age of 31. I saw him 3 days before his accident - we were celebrating my birthday. My own birthday is going to be a hard day from now own. I'm so thankful we had that time together with him though and I'm thankful I called and talked with him the night of his accident. I pray that God will see you through your son's birthday. I hope you can do something special in his memory.
Cathy - Charlie's mom
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