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At 6:13pm on December 7, 2010, Lisa Halsey said…
Terri iam so sorry for your loss, i do know what u are going threw i lost my son Daniel Nov.16th 2008 so it has been 2yrs and everyday i miss him more and more each and everyday. Daniel was only 21 just three weeks after his 21st birthday he was at college when this happend in a car accident he was to far for me to get to him. His football coach identify his body so i didn't have to go threw what you had to go threw watching your son in his truck and couldn't do anything to help him. Daniel didn't suffer he died instantly he didn't suffer he didn't even know what hit him but i know my baby boy was scared he was ejected from his blazer . I give you some credit that you could sit there in wait they would have to put me in a padded cell. It doesn't get eaiser but you start feeling your sons presence i do sometimes i will go to my room and look at his pictures and listen to songs that we use to listen to songs that could of been him he was the most beautiful person inside and out he was my best friend so when i feel down and just want to just cry i will go to the cematry and sit and ball and talk to him but that makes me feel btter even if i have to scream i will. All I know is that i have no regrets for how i raised my son he hade a good realationship sorry for rambbling on if you ever need to talk iam always here for you to talk to iam on face book aor can e mail me at my2sons1022@yahoo.com thanks again for listing to me i know what you are going threw hun iam always here i need friends too. we are all in this toether God bell you and huggs to you Lisa Daniel's mom Lisa Halsey

At 6:13pm on December 7, 2010, Lisa Halsey said…
Terri iam so sorry for your loss, i do know what u are going threw i lost my son Daniel Nov.16th 2008 so it has been 2yrs and everyday i miss him more and more each and everyday. Daniel was only 21 just three weeks after his 21st birthday he was at college when this happend in a car accident he was to far for me to get to him. His football coach identify his body so i didn't have to go threw what you had to go threw watching your son in his truck and couldn't do anything to help him. Daniel didn't suffer he died instantly he didn't suffer he didn't even know what hit him but i know my baby boy was scared he was ejected from his blazer . I give you some credit that you could sit there in wait they would have to put me in a padded cell. It doesn't get eaiser but you start feeling your sons presence i do sometimes i will go to my room and look at his pictures and listen to songs that we use to listen to songs that could of been him he was the most beautiful person inside and out he was my best friend so when i feel down and just want to just cry i will go to the cematry and sit and ball and talk to him but that makes me feel btter even if i have to scream i will. All I know is that i have no regrets for how i raised my son he hade a good realationship sorry for rambbling on if you ever need to talk iam always here for you to talk to iam on face book aor can e mail me at my2sons1022@yahoo.com thanks again for listing to me i know what you are going threw hun iam always here i need friends too. we are all in this toether God bell you and huggs to you Lisa Daniel's mom Lisa Halsey

At 12:38pm on December 7, 2010, Ann said…
Terri:
Yeah right there were no witnesses.
Hugs, Ann--- Michael's mother
At 11:16am on December 7, 2010, Julie Patton said…
Hi Terri:
I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. I know exactly how you feel as I feel that way everyday. I will tell you that for me, that is worse at night. My husband works occassionally at night and that is when it's the hardest, especially if you have no one with you at home. Is there a friend that maybe can come over for a little while on the first couple of nights. My girlfriend came over and stayed with me for a little while and that helped a great deal.

This is still so fresh and new for you. I read your post about the towing company, and I can't believe the way they treated you and your family. That is just so uncalled for. At one time I would have replied with "Karma will get them" but I'm not so sure I believe that anymore. I've always tried to live a good honest life and brought my duaghter up to do the same thing and thid happened. I'm sorry I know that I'm ramiling. I keep thinking that it will get eaier but it doesn't. Its been just over 10 weeks and it feels like everyone expects you to move on and get on with your life but it feels like I'm standing still while everyone around goes on with their own lives. I know that I miss my daughter more and more everyday as I know that you do with your son. Please feel free to email me at any time if you just need to talk. Hugs!!!!!

Julie
At 6:23pm on December 6, 2010, Mary Ann Squires (Macs) said…
Dear Terri, No we have not gone to counseling yet, but I do plan on it as soon as I find one. I'm right outside of Minneapolis so I'm sure there is one near by. I have been keeping myself busy working so I have no idle time to think about the pain I feel. I work in the hospitlity business so I must put on a happy face all the time. I get anger that Logan made a very bad choice because he went out to celebrate that he got a new job and told the staff that he was going to whoop it up one last time before he had to buckle down for work. I don't know what happen for sure but I'm sure alcohol had to do with his passing. He had addictions and was fighting to be free of them. I know what you mean Terri, I had my share of wine. It just seem to help with the agonizing pain. I'm back to my tea and at least I'm not as fuzzy thinking as before. Everyday is filled with tears but there are also happy memories too. God bless and keep you in his strenght. Hugs, Macs
At 12:06pm on December 6, 2010, Harvetta jackson said…
Me and my husband sat on the stage until they called his name. They also did a powerpoint in his honor for a person that never will be forgotten. It was one on the hardest things I had to do just to see all those kids walking down that isle and there was no sign of my boy I just lost it there for a minute or two, but for him to be honored that way was well worth the anxiety
At 11:33am on December 6, 2010, Harvetta jackson said…
Terri

I ache for you so much. It will be a year for me on the 21st of this month since I lost my precious boy. He died on his 18th birthday he had a heart attack while playing basketball. He has never had a heart problem he was 6'3 and 175 pounds I just don't understand. I say to my self I know why his creater left this earth to prepare a better place for me and you, but I do not know what's the reason for my son's absence on this earth. I pray for peace of mind all the time and I will do the same for you and your family. I spoiled my boy just like you did Jonathan his sisters will testify to that. He was my only boy and he knew as well he could get or do anything and get away with it if he got in to trouble he would just rub my shoulder and say you know I love you girl and would just melt like butter. He ment the world to me and I just can't understand why our children have to leave so soon. He died before he could graduate too, but they were nice enoght to let me receive his deploma in his honor. I just want you to know I really do feel you pain and your grief. I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts
At 11:18am on December 6, 2010, Janice said…
Hi Terri,
I truly understand, I get through the holiday's because of a very caring family. I have a wonderful daughter in law who believes in keeping me busy and laughing but, at the end of the day when all is quite and I'm alone the personal hell picks back up. I think about my baby constantly and cry. I know what you mean by "zombie" that pretty much describe us, just getting through the day the best way we know how. Terri, when that unbearable moment is upon you, call someone, your family a friend, me whom ever and just let it out..if it's yelling, screaming or crying, whatever, just let it out...we will always miss our baby's and want them back with us no matter what but, the sad so sad reality is that their gone forever but, we will continue to feel them in our hearts, remember them with our mind and love them forever. My heart goes out to you, please take care of yourself...love Janice
At 11:38pm on December 5, 2010, Mary Ann Squires (Macs) said…
How terribly sad the wedding must of been and how hard it must of been on your husband too. My husband grieves alone and never talks to anyone. He drinks his grief away, which is making it harder for me because I fear I'll have another loss of a loved one. I think women/mothers are more open to talking about their grieve, which I have found really helps me. I love talking about Logan, and what an amazing young man he was as I'm sure you do too.
At 11:18pm on December 5, 2010, Mary Ann Squires (Macs) said…
Terri, I'm so sorry for the loss of your son, Jonathan. Just reading your post made my heart ache for you. Like my Logan, he too was so excited about the new adventure they were having, Logan for a new job and Jonathan for a new girlfriend. My husband and I had just returened from Texas on Oct 25 as we took my mothers cremains down there to be buries next to my dad. On Oct 27 we got the phone call from the embassy that Logan had pass away the day before. I'm so sorry for the loss of your father too. I think we both have much in common, and were probably meant to help each other through this. It is going to be a hard road to travel with many pecks and valleys to go through there will be twists and turns but just stay on the road and travel very slowly and someday we will get to a better road without the pecks and valleys, just a smoother road to travel. Logan and his lovely girlfriend were talking about getting married. It breaks my heart to know I will never go to my sons wedding or be a grandmother. All the plans I had for the future are gone. I will alway remember my Logan in my mind as long as I have one and in my heart as long as that keeps pumping. I will go on living because I know that is what the heavenly plan is even though I don't understand it now. I will keep an open mind on my surroundings and maybe I'll get some kind of a sign from him that he is with me. Let's travel that road together Terri, Take care and be gentle on yourself. Hugs
At 7:41pm on December 5, 2010, Carolyn Smith said…
God bless you. Those are two absolutely devastating losses in such a short time.
At 7:41pm on December 5, 2010, Carolyn Smith said…
God bless you. Those are two absolutely devastating losses in such a short time.
At 9:08am on December 5, 2010, Janice said…
Hello Terri, My name is Janice and I just want to tell you how very sorry I am for the lost of your lovely son Jonathan. My son Mark was also killed on Oct 30, 2009 but, It still seems like yesterday. I know what your going through and I feel bad for you, we as parents should not have out lived of precious children but, we have. So, Terri whenever you need to talk no matter what time of day or night feel free to call on me. Terri, I will keep you in my prayers.
Janice
At 12:02am on December 5, 2010, Mary Ann Squires (Macs) said…
Dear Terri, Thank you for contacting me, I know what you are going through and being on this website will help. It is just not right that we have to mourn for our sons. Your son was sadly way too young, may I ask what happen? My son Logan, was in Vietnam and he just got a new manager job in Siagon and was really excited about it. He had not showed up for work for 2 days. That was when they found him in his hotel room. We don't know for sure what happen and we probably never will. Logan was so funny, he would make me laugh all the time and always wanted to make sure everyone was always happy. Did your son have red hair too? It looks like it is in the picture. What a fine young man he looks like. Please Teri tell me more about you son. I know when I talk about Logan it comforts me. I will gladly listen to everything you have to tell me and please do not reply to this Linda on your page. I got a email from her too and was told it is spam. I am sending you a big hug and will be waiting to hear from you. Macs ( that's my nickname)

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