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At 10:27pm on March 26, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

I too am sad to read that you are having such a rough time.  We are all here for you Terri.....wish there was something we could do to help you out.  We do care about you and all the moms/dads on this site, all we can do is try and help each other through these days.

Hugs

Susan

At 7:03pm on March 26, 2011, Janet - Todd's Mom said…

Oh Terri,  :(

I felt so sad when I read how you tried to join your son, but God had other plans for you.  Please try to hang in there.  We're all here for you and know what you are feeling.  My son was my favorite person in the whole world.  He made me laugh whenever I felt down, and I found him to be so interesting, helpful, kind and funny too!  I feel the same way you do for a part of every day, but I've managed not to act on it yet because I want to keep my son Todd's memory alive in a good way.  I'm sure you want the same for Jonathan.  Sending you love and hugs today.

Janet

At 5:13pm on March 26, 2011, Jackie Jones said…
i understand how hard it is day to day.  as i think i have said before i lost my only child as well to prescription drugs. He had been 18 for barely 5 days.  was supposed to graduate this june andd was accepted to college.  he was so excited and full of life.  I am not sure what gets me through everyday.  some days and weeks are harder than others.  i lost my mom a little over year ago and she was only 63.   so i have to hope they found eachother.  i have found what is probably going to help me  is too try and prevent prescription drugs from killing another young person and everyone for that matter.  but my focus will be teenagers.  im hear too my email jacqjones@msn.com  i am on facebook as well.  there is a book that you can download for about $10 called loosing your only that may help us.  i havent read it yet.  but i think reading about another persons experience on loosing another child would be helpful so we know we are not alone. 
At 12:34am on March 23, 2011, chelley jones said…
I promise I understand your feelings. My handsome son passed away on July 16,2009 oh god I miss him so his beautiful smile . I promise I wake up some mornings and just wish god had taken me to heaven to be with my son damium. My name is Michelle if you would like to talk my email address is joneschelley@ymail.com I think we all can use a lot of love and support I am so sorry for your devastating lost. May god bless you and your family.
At 7:51pm on March 22, 2011, FELECIA WINN said…
HI TERRI THANK YOU FOR THAT
At 7:51pm on March 22, 2011, FELECIA WINN said…
HI TERRI THANK YOU FOR THAT
At 7:43pm on March 22, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
Terri, I wouldn't feel right accepting money from you. I'll pick it up at Walmart. I go there about once a month. Thanks for offering. After i read it we'll discuss it, k?
At 7:43pm on March 22, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
Terri, I wouldn't feel right accepting money from you. I'll pick it up at Walmart. I go there about once a month. Thanks for offering. After i read it we'll discuss it, k?
At 1:33pm on March 21, 2011, shannon churchill said…
Terri,  I have seen so many of your posts and I know it is very hard for you.   I want you to know my heart goes out to you for your loss.   I know it has to be so very painful to come home and see that place every time you go by.   I am dreading going by the spot where my son lost his life as well.... so many unanswered what if's.   If my son had been helped by the people who he knocked on the door of then he would be here now...  GRRRRRR   Makes you hate the world we live in.   That stupid man should have helped him instead of trying to get him in trouble...   Hugs to you... God bless your heart and help you with your pain.  
At 5:16am on March 21, 2011, Jeff Justus said…

Terri,

  That's so strange that the guy following your son did not inform officers at the school when your son was stopped. That would seem to be the time to stop him. Why wait until the vehicle had drivrn away. This is so strange that this guy was so concerned yet didn't do everything within his power to have your son stopped.I'm sure this guy, if he answered that question at all, would not have a legitimate answer. take care!

At 4:34am on March 21, 2011, judy taylor said…

HI TERRI HONEY I'AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS I'AM BEEN WALKING HE FLOORS SINCE 2:OO AM  MISSING MY BOYS SO MUCH I HERE FOR U MAYBE NOT MUCH HELP BUT I AM HERE EVEN AFTER 3 AND HALF YRS I CAN NOT COPE WITH THIS

HUGSSSSSSSSSS JUDY

At 6:12am on March 19, 2011, Jeff Justus said…

Terri,

  Yesterday was my 4 month of loss. My son passed on the 17th but we did not find him until the 18th..... so I have two days a month to count. Yesterday I was really thinking about how my son's death could have been avoided. If you heard the whole story you'd understand. I can't say much about his death but he had a " Golden Ticket " handed to him but it was dropped several times on the way to him. I need to get past this bitterness. I really wish that it was just a loss that could not be prevented but there was many times in a two week period that things could have changed. I hope to tell you our timeline of events in the future. Take care and comfort in knowing that many know how you feel and can really relate.

At 3:26am on March 19, 2011, judy taylor said…

terri hold that rope honey i loss both my sons in 5 weeks it hurts like hell i want to dye

i'am here for you i'so sorry for your lost love and huggs judy

judytaylor1227.@live.com

At 1:34am on March 19, 2011, Linda Sacquety said…

Hi Terri,

Just want you to know I am thinking of you tomorrow (19th).  Milestone dates are killers on our memories.  My daughter died June 17th and the 17th of each month becomes another milestone.  I find myself reliving every minute in the hospital watching her slip away and even at the exact time of the day, I find myself having a hard time breathing.  I just go into that awful world of losing my precious daughter.  I saw her take her first breath and also her last breath.  Just too much for a mom to go through.  Be good to yourself and be patient with yourself.  That is all we "special" moms can do and you ARE special!

At 1:34am on March 19, 2011, Linda Sacquety said…

Hi Terri,

Just want you to know I am thinking of you tomorrow (19th).  Milestone dates are killers on our memories.  My daughter died June 17th and the 17th of each month becomes another milestone.  I find myself reliving every minute in the hospital watching her slip away and even at the exact time of the day, I find myself having a hard time breathing.  I just go into that awful world of losing my precious daughter.  I saw her take her first breath and also her last breath.  Just too much for a mom to go through.  Be good to yourself and be patient with yourself.  That is all we "special" moms can do and you ARE special!

At 1:54pm on March 18, 2011, Paula G, Jimmy's Mother said…
Keep that faith Terri,  I know it's hard, but keep in mind you're not alone.  You son is with you and all of us here are too.  Hugs, Paula
At 9:59pm on March 17, 2011, Paula G, Jimmy's Mother said…
Hello Terri, I am so sorry for your loss.  I lost my son, December 7, 2010.  He would have been 44 on March 14.  So, this week has been especially hard.  I know what you mean when you say you don't understand.  I've always been told that God doesn't put more on you than you can stand, but sometimes, I wonder.  I pray for you and all of us.  Hugs, Paula
At 8:50am on March 16, 2011, shannon churchill said…
I so know my son will come home a do the same thing one day..  he just stays quiet and to himself about is all.   I know it will come to a head for him and it will explode.  It does that for me daily.   God help you in this time of trouble and Jesus take our hand and show us the way home with peace in our hearts. 
At 11:58am on March 8, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

Yes these back operations are really painful and long recovery.  The 2nd day he thought he didn't have any pain but when the big meds wore off the pain really hit.

Last night was his first night home, we kept up on the drugs every 4 hrs.  I set an alarm to keep him regular pain schedule.  But the first night went smoother than I thought.  This is his 5th surgery so we have been through this before but of course we are older and crabbier....

Hopefully his will take and we can go on with our active life style.  I figure at least a couple of months of this intense care. 

Thank you for your kind thoughts and I really enjoy reading your posts.  You offer very good advice. 

Just makes me very sad to see these numbers grow so quickly in "our group".  I was 364 and now it nearing 1000.  So sad

Take care and hugs coming your way.

Susan  Donny's Mom

At 11:17am on March 8, 2011, Britni said…
Terri, I am so sorry for all of your losses. You are a very strong woman!  Its crazy how one day, one second can change your life forever. Im glad I got to meet you on here and we can support and help eachother through tough times. Keep your head up !

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