Hi Tammy, thanks for your response back. Words can't express my deepest sympathy for your loss. I can't imagine how you feel. Especially losing two children. That has to be very hard. It doesn't matter how many years ago what matters is that our children are not here with us any longer. That's the sad part. I hope you are finding your peace in therapy. I havent went to a therapist yet. I just pray whenever I feel down. May God continue wrapping is loving arms around you. Merry Christmas. Hope to hear from you soon. Robin
Hi Tammy My name is Robin and I believe you requested me as a friend which I have accepted. I don't know your story but I am sure it is just as sad as everyone elses. I lost my son to a murder on Sept 8 2009 and I am still feeling sad. He was my only son and he was 22 yrs old on July 11. Please contact me when you can so that we can share of thoughts prayers and support to one another. Have a bless day.
You look great! Has this site helped you out alot? It must be doing something you are still here. That is good! It's hard to find a good place online to stick with. Christmas is almost here. If it weren't for my daughter and 2 little grandchildren, I'd stay in bed. I hope you are well and I hope things do get easier. I feel like it isn't real. I feel like I am in shock.
Hi Tammy,
I sent you a message on Sept 7 2010. I have not been back since. It got hard for my sister and I taking care of mom. She passed away November 2, 2010. I am numb yet cry alot. I watched her last moments. I tried to wake her. She died at home from colon cancer. I see you are still here and seem to have come a long way. I wanted to say hello and sorry I did not stick with you. Wendy
Hi Tammy,
I sent you a message on Sept 7 2010. I have not been back since. It got hard for my sister and I taking care of mom. She passed away November 2, 2010. I am numb yet cry alot. I watched her last moments. I tried to wake her. She died at home from colon cancer. I see you are still here and seem to have come a long way. I wanted to say hello and sorry I did not stick with you. Wendy
Well Tammy I am still here hanging around I need this group more then I thought I did . Just wanted to stop by and see how you are doing . you in my prayers
((((((Hugs)))))))
Neicy
therapy is good, you have to have faith, I am glad you are getting better it has been three years since my 18 daughter has been gone, we have to be strong and you can't do it alone.
PEACE,FAITH AND B STRONG EVERY1 IT WILL GET BETTER AND I PRAY 4 ALL U GUYS FROM THA BOTTOM OF MY HEART CAUSE I NO HOW U FEEL GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERY 1 OF U GOODNITE.
Tammy your words are inspirational . Thank you for befriending me. some days I feel so lost and alone . but one thing I know is that God is always right by my side , he will never leave or forsake me have a happy and blessed evening
Neicy
2DAY IS A GREAT DAY AND I HOPE IT IS 4 U AS WELL KEEP THA FAITH U GUYS THINGS WILL GET BETTER AND TRY 2 ONLY REMEMBER THA GOOD TIMES WITH YR LOVED 1S GOODNITE AND GOD BLESS.
HELLO EVERYONE THKS SO MUCH 4 YR SUPPORT AND NICE NOTES U GUYS R THA BEST HOPE U ALL R DOING MUCH BETTER THAN B4 UPDATE ON ME I HAVE BEEN IN THERAPY NOW A LIL OVER A MONTH AND I NEVER THOUGHT THAT THERAPY WOULD EVER HELP ME AND MY PAIN I FEEL EACH DAY INSIDE THATS Y IT TOOK ME 11YRS YES 11 WHOLE YRS 2 ACCEPT THA FACT THAT I COULDNT DO IT ON MY OWN ANYMORE AND GUYS WHEN I TELL U THAT IT HAS HELPED I REALLY MEAN IT AND IF IT CAN HELP ME IT CAN HELP ANYONE 4 YRS I HELD EVERYTHING INSIDE BECAUSE OF HOW I FELT PEOPLE WOULD THINK,SAY OR FEEL ABOUT ME WELL IM HERE 2 SAY 2DAY IT DOESNT MATTER IM DOING WHAT IT IS GOOD 4 ME AND MY BABYGIRL SINCE I HAVE RELEASED SOME OF MY ANGER,PAIN,STRESS AND FEARS I FEEL LIKE ALOT HAS BEEN LIFTED FROM MY HEART AND SOUL AND REALLY FEEL MUCH BETTER I BEEN GOING OUT ,DOING A LIL SHOPPING SPENDING TIME WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND DOING ALOT MORE LAUGHING THAN CRING I HAVE EVEN LOST 16LBS AND I CAN CLEARLY SEE AND SAY THERE IS LIFE AGAIN AFTER THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE THO I WILL NEVER 4 GET MY BABIES I NO NOW THAT THEY R ALL AROUND ME WITH EVERYTHING I DO SO WE ARE STILL 2GETHER AND HAVE NEVER PARTED AND THIS IS HOW I SEE IT NOW BUT IT WAS A HARD LONG ROAD LET ME TELL YA I HOPE THIS HAS INSPIRED SOMEONE WHO MAYBE DIDNT OR JUST SIMPLY DONT WANT THERAPY TO RETHINK CAUSE IT HAS HELPED ME ALOT IM SO THANKFUL 4 IT GOD BLESS U ALL KEEP THA FAITH STAY STRONG AND KEEP PRAYING THAT EACH DAY GETS A LITTLE BETTER 4 YA AND I WILL DO THA SAME GOODNITE EVERYONE.
HELLO EVERYONE THKS SO MUCH 4 YR SUPPORT AND NICE NOTES U GUYS R THA BEST HOPE U ALL R DOING MUCH BETTER THAN B4 UPDATE ON ME I HAVE BEEN IN THERAPY NOW A LIL OVER A MONTH AND I NEVER THOUGHT THAT THERAPY WOULD EVER HELP ME AND MY PAIN I FEEL EACH DAY INSIDE THATS Y IT TOOK ME 11YRS YES 11 WHOLE YRS 2 ACCEPT THA FACT THAT I COULDNT DO IT ON MY OWN ANYMORE AND GUYS WHEN I TELL U THAT IT HAS HELPED I REALLY MEAN IT AND IF IT CAN HELP ME IT CAN HELP ANYONE 4 YRS I HELD EVERYTHING INSIDE BECAUSE OF HOW I FELT PEOPLE WOULD THINK,SAY OR FEEL ABOUT ME WELL IM HERE 2 SAY 2DAY IT DOESNT MATTER IM DOING WHAT IT IS GOOD 4 ME AND MY BABYGIRL SINCE I HAVE RELEASED SOME OF MY ANGER,PAIN,STRESS AND FEARS I FEEL LIKE ALOT HAS BEEN LIFTED FROM MY HEART AND SOUL AND REALLY FEEL MUCH BETTER I BEEN GOING OUT ,DOING A LIL SHOPPING SPENDING TIME WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND DOING ALOT MORE LAUGHING THAN CRING I HAVE EVEN LOST 16LBS AND I CAN CLEARLY SEE AND SAY THERE IS LIFE AGAIN AFTER THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE THO I WILL NEVER 4 GET MY BABIES I NO NOW THAT THEY R ALL AROUND ME WITH EVERYTHING I DO SO WE ARE STILL 2GETHER AND HAVE NEVER PARTED AND THIS IS HOW I SEE IT NOW BUT IT WAS A HARD LONG ROAD LET ME TELL YA I HOPE THIS HAS INSPIRED SOMEONE WHO MAYBE DIDNT OR JUST SIMPLY DONT WANT THERAPY TO RETHINK CAUSE IT HAS HELPED ME ALOT IM SO THANKFUL 4 IT GOD BLESS U ALL KEEP THA FAITH STAY STRONG AND KEEP PRAYING THAT EACH DAY GETS A LITTLE BETTER 4 YA AND I WILL DO THA SAME GOODNITE EVERYONE.
It just hurts so bad, such a deep horrible hurt and I don't understand why her? Everyone I love leaves or dies. I'm terrified something will happen to my other kids. I go to Compassionate Friends once a month. I know the deep searing lethal pain will ease up but I know a day won't go by that I won't think about her.
thanks for responding
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Hi Tammy, thanks for your response back. Words can't express my deepest sympathy for your loss. I can't imagine how you feel. Especially losing two children. That has to be very hard. It doesn't matter how many years ago what matters is that our children are not here with us any longer. That's the sad part. I hope you are finding your peace in therapy. I havent went to a therapist yet. I just pray whenever I feel down. May God continue wrapping is loving arms around you. Merry Christmas. Hope to hear from you soon. Robin
Hello Tammy I pray all is well with you may God bless and keep you during this time of the year ,Have a blessed Christmas
Hi Tammy My name is Robin and I believe you requested me as a friend which I have accepted. I don't know your story but I am sure it is just as sad as everyone elses. I lost my son to a murder on Sept 8 2009 and I am still feeling sad. He was my only son and he was 22 yrs old on July 11. Please contact me when you can so that we can share of thoughts prayers and support to one another. Have a bless day.
Thank you Tammy,
You look great! Has this site helped you out alot? It must be doing something you are still here. That is good! It's hard to find a good place online to stick with. Christmas is almost here. If it weren't for my daughter and 2 little grandchildren, I'd stay in bed. I hope you are well and I hope things do get easier. I feel like it isn't real. I feel like I am in shock.
I sent you a message on Sept 7 2010. I have not been back since. It got hard for my sister and I taking care of mom. She passed away November 2, 2010. I am numb yet cry alot. I watched her last moments. I tried to wake her. She died at home from colon cancer. I see you are still here and seem to have come a long way. I wanted to say hello and sorry I did not stick with you. Wendy
I sent you a message on Sept 7 2010. I have not been back since. It got hard for my sister and I taking care of mom. She passed away November 2, 2010. I am numb yet cry alot. I watched her last moments. I tried to wake her. She died at home from colon cancer. I see you are still here and seem to have come a long way. I wanted to say hello and sorry I did not stick with you. Wendy
((((((Hugs)))))))
Neicy
Neicy
Thank you for visiting my sons memorial page. That was very sweet.
thanks for responding
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