I so understand what you are saying about the loneliness my brother died in an auto accident this past valentines day he left behind 3 little girls. i am still having a hard time dealing with the fact he is really gone it doesn't seem fair at all. some days i have a really rough time feel like i could cry all day. life is not fair by any means.
I so understand what you are saying about the loneliness my brother died in an auto accident this past valentines day he left behind 3 little girls. i am still having a hard time dealing with the fact he is really gone it doesn't seem fair at all. some days i have a really rough time feel like i could cry all day. life is not fair by any means.
I have to admit that I am questioning my faith. I can't understand why God would take away 4 innocent children's daddy....my brother was 39, his children are ages 11, 9, 8, and 6. I know the Bible says we do not need to know the reason why, that we may never understand why things happen the way they do. I keep hearing "it's going to get better"--I know it will. I am just grieving the loss of my only sibling. The loss of any opportunity to tell him all the things that now I can only hope he knew. Fighting to remember each memory, good or bad. Searching for every picture from childhood and on....and crushed to realize we never had another picture taken together after my high school graduation. Crushed that I do not have a picture of him and my 4 year old daughter. That she didn't really even know him until AFTER he died. So many regrets. It can only get better.
My brother was my only sibling and was two years older than me. He died Oct.2007 and it still leaves a crack in my heart . We could have been closer but cant change that now . It is very hard to deal with you will have days where living your life is just going through the motions but you are so lost.
It will get easier to breathe and live your life but the pain is just beneath the surface .You hang in there we are all here for you .
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My brother was my only sibling and was two years older than me. He died Oct.2007 and it still leaves a crack in my heart . We could have been closer but cant change that now . It is very hard to deal with you will have days where living your life is just going through the motions but you are so lost.
It will get easier to breathe and live your life but the pain is just beneath the surface .You hang in there we are all here for you .
My brother died at age 40 possible heart attack.