Thankyou James for you kind words, am sorry about your brother, it is so amazing to know that no matter where we are in the world we can support each other during these times. My partner was the ultimate optimist who engaged life in so many ways, am holding onto each story that comes out from his friends, colleagues and family, although young he had a life full and memorable, l just miss his presence so much, my life was so full, there was never enough time, now there seems nothing but time, it is so quiet. Nearly three weks down and we scatter part of his ashes this weekend. Sunny Melbourne, his ashes out to sea where is father fished many years ago, hope they are together now and this scattering will begin a new chapter in his journey ... Cheers, Tony