Hello Rhonda, I joined this group after my only child Candace Rae Watson passed on April 9, 2010. She had just turned 30 yrs old on February 11th. She and their three girls Dad were raising the girls. Her Spirit has come to me twice, Both times she was behind me. She rubbed both of my arms up and down twice, the day after her body died. Freaked me out but what a blessing! Her Spirit LIVES!! The next (and last) time she came tome was on Valentine's Day, just over 10 months later. Again, Candace was behind me. She poked me on my shoulder. I went to a medium and she told me Candace wanted to tell me she loves me! I never went back to a medium because I think they are an opening where evil Spirits can come through. Just my thoughts. I can hardly wait to be reunited with my only child. I truly hope putting your thoughts and feelings here will bring some closure. I believe in God and He WILL reunite us with those we've lost. You have my sympathies. Our children are better than fine. I pray you receive peace.