Sara Murphy
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Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Trina...I'm happy with how the tattoo's turned out.  I guess it pays to not through everything away.  I have a bunch of paperwork from Ken's business so when my niece asked if she could use his writing for her tattoo, I…"
Aug 19
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I finally got around to getting this tattoo which I've been wanting for a while.  The second pic is my niece's 1st tattoo (18th bday gift).  She wanted to use Ken's own handwriting so I found a fax he wrote years ago and…"
Aug 19
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Deb, I just read your question about dreaming if our spouses are leaving us in real life,  I actually had those dreams BEFORE Ken died.   That's how I knew I was going to lose him even though the doctors were telling me…"
Aug 5
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi friends, I'm sorry I dropped off for a while.  I'll have to catch up on reading the posts. The past few months have been crazy.  My mother's been sick since March and just got home from her third hospital stay since then…"
Aug 5
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi All...….checking in to see how everyone is doing.  I'm doing ok, trying to remain covid free which isn't easy. My mother has been in and out of the hospital the past few weeks which keeps my siblings and I a little extra…"
Mar 30
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"HI All......First I want to say I'm glad Chuck and Steve are safe.  I was thinking about you both quite a bit.  I can't believe what I was seeing on the news. As far as the vaccine, I'll be in the very last phase so…"
Mar 4
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I saw this post on Facebook today and think it's a beautiful way of looking at our life's journey.  Thank you all for being on my train.  Although I may not be able to see you, I know you're there THE TRAIN: At birth we…"
Feb 9
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Marsha....Sorry I didn't respond to your question last week.  Work has been beyond crazy and now I've had to deal with 3 snowstorms in a row with 2 more on the horizon. To be honest, I'm doing ok with Covid,  I'm…"
Feb 8
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Deb......that's the thing with memories, we have no choice but to take the bad with the good.  Hopefully for all of us, the good outweigh the bad.   Ken and I had 8 years of serious health issues and each time we thought we got…"
Feb 8
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha......that's sweet.  As soon as you met Ernie, you knew you met your soulmate.  I hope you take comfort in knowing you'll be together for all eternity.   "
Jan 31
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mary Jane...the pillow is 12x16 so it's not too big.  I ordered it from Shutterfly"
Jan 16
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Pillow.jpg  I'm not sure how well this picture will come through but it's a pillow i ordered for myself, kind of like an anniversary/memorial gift for me. I attached the pic as a link and also attached it in the body of the…"
Jan 15
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha....I looked at the video and I've always been a believer, even before losing Ken but more so since.  In fact, on the 5 yr anniversary Wednesday, I was wondering if he was going to send me a sign that he was there.  He made his…"
Jan 15
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thanks Todd and Chuck.....time really is funny.  The days seemed to drag on, especially the early days but the years went by in the blink of an eye. Todd.....Hope you've been doing ok.  I remember that you're right…"
Jan 13
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I'm not sure how it's possible that today is the 5 year anniversary of Ken's passing. To me, it was just yesterday that he left."
Jan 13
Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Chuck...I'm glad Steve's surgery was smooth and praying for a speedy recovery.  Thanks for posting the message from your friend.  I love it and posted it on my Facebook page Hugs to you both, Sara"
Jan 2

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Posted on February 28, 2016 at 1:58pm 2 Comments

I lost my husband Ken in January after 26 1/2 yrs of marriage.  He was the love of my life, my everything.  Now I don't know what comes next.  It's a struggle to get through each day.  Only those that have lost their life partner can understand how excruciating it is.  I'm hoping this group can somehow help.

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At 8:17am on October 6, 2018, Susan said…

Hi Sara,

I haven't been on line lately. Had a couple of very sad weeks. I would love to get together sometime. This is such a lonely journey. Would love to meet with someone's who actually understands. I live in Beverly.

Susan

At 9:30am on March 14, 2018, Anthony Umphenour said…

Thank you Sara!  I'm still overwhelmed in sadness.  It's nice to know there is a safe place to chat with others.

At 7:44am on February 18, 2017, LARRY WALD said…

Thank you Sara

At 9:16am on October 13, 2016, virginia mckinney said…

Thank you Sara ,I am sorry is not good enough to say to you,there are no words ,Micah is my son, he was 32 when it happen, I am the daughter of a preacher and never doubted god , but living with my husband 53years ,saying ,it's a fantasy that people want to believe,and all the other of his beliefs it is hard for me to think which way is right (I am problem not making sense,idont these days)

At 2:21pm on July 21, 2016, Marsha H said…

Hi Sara ...  Nice to be your friend.  My honor!

Marsha

At 3:37pm on July 7, 2016, Reponsa Bias said…
Hi Sara
I'm truly sorry for your loss if I could I'd wish it all better for you. Hang in....one day at a time.
At 8:27pm on July 2, 2016, Karen said…

Oh, my Sara, I think I understand what you're saying - all this time - ugh.  Thank you - well, it's too late now bc Daddy's been gone 6 yrs so I'm doing much better - wow.  Thank you for the info!

At 7:57pm on June 24, 2016, Harold McKinstry said…

Hi Sara

My biggest struggle is I know Diane is gone and not coming back, but there is a small piece of my brain that won't accept that. The idea that I will never get another kiss, hug and I Love You More from her just doesn't seem possible or real. None of this seems real to me how could it makes no sense. I find I do best if I don't look too far ahead, when I do I get depressed and anxiety sets in. Then the reality sets in of being alone for the rest of my life without the love of my life. Maybe not looking to far ahead is my brains way of keeping that piece of my brain that can't accept happy. I try not to think of it to much. 

At 9:08pm on March 21, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

Hi Sara,

From reading the posts, you and I seems to be the only ones who have recently lost our spouses.  Have you returned to work yet?  I haven't.  I am looking for something new.  I can't go back to that place.  

The weekends seems the hardest to me.  Sunday just wouldn't end. I pray for strenght every day.  I haven't been able to go through his things.  I wear his pajamas, socks, t-shirts and anything else that I can.  I miss him so much.

If you ever want to talk one on one, just let me know.  I think I would find comfort in talking.

Joann

At 8:13pm on March 19, 2016, Joann Sueing said…

I'm having one of those moments and anxiety as I type.  I will ask my doctor for some meds.  I am 4 months from my 57th birthday.  He made them so special.  I, too, wish that I could be with him but yet know that my children need me.  I feel stuck.  My emotions are so out of control right now.  I just want my heart to stop aching.  

I hope to talk to you tomorrow.  Let me know what range of time would be good for you.  I plan to go to church for the first time since his funeral.  I am going to take something to help me sleep.

Talk to you soon.

Joann

 
 
 

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