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Posted on October 21, 2009 at 2:33pm 1 Comment

On Sept. 21,2009 I buried my first born, he had just turned 22 on the 19th. He spent his birthday weekend in the arms of an angel. I have been very strong through this whole tragedy but I know I will have my day. He had just spent 90 days in a detention center for a DWI, 45 of which he chose inpatient therapy for abuse of pills. He was "clean" out for 1 week and so excited to stay that way. He had so many things he wanted to do, we found his list later going thru his journal. His death is under… Continue

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At 8:32pm on November 13, 2009, carol fox said…
i will say a prayer for you, i lost my son on oct 11,2009 he was 32, he was found dead in his apartment the 12th,still dont know happened to him,he had battled drugs for years,but he was looking so good lately,i miss him so much. i cant sleep nights he,s on my mind all the time,lord i dont know how to bear this,my heart hurts so for him,god give me the strenth to let him go an be with jesus,
At 4:46pm on October 28, 2009, Cindy Sadler said…
Dear Valerie, First of All I want to Say I am So Sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I unfortunately know the pain that you are feeling but I know that we both have 2 different sets of UN-Answered Questions. Here is what happened to My Son.
On August 30th, 2009, This is the Worst thing that could have Ever Happened to My Son Danny. ******My Son Suffered for years wishing that he had Love and acceptance from his Father. My Dad had to call My Son Danny's Dad Dan to make sure that Danny's Dad did not blow Danny off for the 300th time because Danny was looking forward to seeing his Dad for his 21st B-Day weekend. Danny, His Dad and His Dads GF Joyce Vickless went drinking together on Danny's 21 Birthday and from what I understand a argument broke out and Danny's Dad and his Dads GF Joyce decided to return him back Home in Butler and started up Interstate I-79 as the Disagreement continued Joyce Vickless made the decision to pull over and leave My Son Danny out of the car 3 miles from the Portersville Exit while he was Drunk and had just been shut off at the bar, he had no cell phone and it was on a Dark Cold Night. Both his Dad and His Dads GF returned to the Bar where they continued Drinking until they received a call from the Pennsylvania State Police saying that My Son Danny was Hit and Killed on the Interstate Highway where "They" had left him.****** I will NEVER EVER be the same Fun Loving Person that I was just over than 2 weeks ago. ******Neither one of them will even talk to me to clear-up some of the questions that I have that keep going over and over in My head.****** Danny is Gone from this Earth but still remains in My Heart.

UPDATES: Since that posting I have found out more Shocking details from that night and after that night. We have had contact with one witness so far and he is a Police Officer (off duty) who happened to be passing as My Son Danny's Dad and his Dads Girlfriend where letting him out of the car and the Police Officer said that because the car was pulled over he started moving over into the fast lane and just then My Son came from in front of his Dads Vehicle and the Officer had stated that had he not already been switching lanes that he would have hit My son so this means that they sat there looking out of their windshield and had seen My Son almost get hit by that car and they still "Left him" out there. I feel that they were afraid that they would be arrested for DUI and didn't want to be seen going up and down the road looking for him so they headed back to the bar where they received the phone call. I received a letter from Social Security that Danny had also been found Mentally Disabled. They were aware that he had problems that I truly believe stemmed from All of the broken Promises over the years. My Son also told me on the day he died (his 21st Birthday) that his Dad had bought New pants and shirts for his B-Day. When Danny left the Bar and Joyce confronted him outside of the bar Danny had removed his shirt so he had no shirt on when he exited the vehicle. I understand that he also removed his pants once he was out of the vehicle and he realized that they drove away and left him there. Well the investigator kept asking me "Where are the Pants?? Didn't the State Police give them back?? I said no that I didn't know what they did with them well the investigator told me the other day that when he questioned Danny's Dad and asked him about the Pants Danny's Dad told the investigators that the pants where not available because his Girlfriend Joyce had returned them to the Store for the Money. WHAT!!! What kind of people are these people??? Even the Investigator couldn't believe it and he is an X State Trooper. I am meeting with the DA in the morning to see if there are Any Charges and there Damb well better be because this is NOT going to go on record without them being responsible for there negligent actions... Thank You for Listening.
At 3:39pm on October 28, 2009, Sage said…
Strangers that have so much in common. My son also passed on September 21,2009. His childhood friend took him to the hospital and he was pronounced dead. Waiting for autopsy and then I'm going to the DEA in KS.
My son was not strong enough to stay away from the devil himself in human form.
Give your pain to God and he will calm you and give you strength.

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